"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should I do with a girl that just stops responding to my messages?

Autopilot

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If you judged her by her ACTIONS from the beginning you wouldn't be in this dilemma. Words are poor , judge by action and you will not need to ask again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zebedee

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This has happened to most guys and it is fvcking infuriating. A lot of girls want to take the easy way out by treating a guy like he doesnt exist rather than be honest. Personally I think its immoral and ive never done that to a girl and it pisses me off when it happens to me.
 

Kal0051

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Zebedee said:
This has happened to most guys and it is fvcking infuriating. A lot of girls want to take the easy way out by treating a guy like he doesnt exist rather than be honest. Personally I think its immoral and ive never done that to a girl and it pisses me off when it happens to me.
well, she eventually got back to me but just can't meet up before she leaves. So whatever, I'll just find someone else to hang out with.
 

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It has happened to every guy I have met, its becoming a socially acceptable way of breaking up with someone. The one thing that angers me is when some guys let it turn them into misogynistic arseholes. Just put it down to experience and realise you werent right for eachother and use it as a learning curve on the road to future success.
 
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