You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Brandonc662 said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You know, I usually don't care for this fvckhead, Bluntmaster's posts, but this is right, you should not contact her at all and just show up to where you'd planned to meet, BUT with a backup Hoe just in case she does flake, you will feel No Rejection because you'll be getting yours later on. So when you talk to the flake again, um you don't care, because you got satisfied that day, no biggie. If she wants to see you again, so be it. If not, not, fvck another hoe.Bluntmaster said:
Do not contact her until Right Before, you are supposed to meet, an hour or less before. If she says, "I forgot" or insert some lame excuse, then you should be like, "ok...fine, no problem...I understand" because you know you have others to call, even if those others are not available, you're calm, cool, and easy to the girl who just flaked on you. If she doesn't pick up, call until she does, and if she still doesn't after 10 minutes or so, Fvck her, she's written off for good. Vow to never see her again for not giving you a reason. Text is not acceptable. She must answer the phone.Brandonc662 said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No, because you will not be fvcking her early in the morning, I can guarantee you that.Brandonc662 said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ok here's my opinion. when i got divrocedlol i started texting some broad i use to fvck back in the day. Back in the day when I was 10 years younger she had a bf...but whenever i got drunk i'd text/call her (drunk dial/text) trying to get laid. That didn't work out so well lol.Brandonc662 said:
