"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should I do oh mighty DJs?

Gray The Prince

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Okay, I'm going to spare verybody a huge wall of text by putting this in cliff note format.


-Senior yr in HS, I get oneitis with a girl during my senior year season

-Don't end up getting football scholly and infatuation with said girl continuees

-girl heavily flirts, I become major AFC, girl's bf is an even bigger AFC

-girl takes it steps further and start taking pics together and the hs thinks we're dating. (bf didnt go to same school)

-girl makes me a bday present (cake, candy etc.)

-I fall for it big time. Is heavily building up massive feelings towards girl

-I took AFC to whole different level and become obsessed.

-Me and girl into seemingly minor argument

-Girl blasts me on text, saying how she never liked me and never will like me, that she never sent mixed signas, that she has a bf she cares about very much, that I was pathetic,and etc.

-Girl deletes me from facebook

-Me and girl do not talk for weeks

-I go to Prom with girl's friend. I was still "in love" with girl, so I didn't smash

-Me and girl talk again but very little.

-Girl adds me back on FB and tells me "I should feel lucky."

Part 2:

-I go away to college on Academic scholly. (I got dem book smarts)

-I discover SS shortly after arriving

-I read DJ Bible and Book of Pook,

-I struggle heavily at first

-Eventually I start getting the hang of things, make friends everywhere, go to bars, clubs, frat parties, house parties and apartment parties.

-I start posting pics on fb.

-I forget about girl and live my life

-I get bids from 3 fraternities but turn all 3 of them down.

-I become the go-to guy in my dorm on where the parties are at.

-I dated, messed around and smashed various girls at college.

-I get active on the Bodybuilding Misc.

-My game increases using irl trolling

-I get Skype and girl messages me on Skype

-I'm bored and girl finds out that I got piercings

-Girl also tells me that she saw my partyboy pics on fb

-I tell girl I have **** piercing. (I really don't I just have 3 on my ears)

-I tell the girl I know she wants to see my ****.

-Girl admits it and I deny her.


Part 3:

-I enter and win the Sosuave Anti-AA competition

-Spring ends and I prepare to walk-on for football

-I receive news that my GPA was slipping below 3.2

-I put football on temp. hold and work to raise GPA

-I return home for summer and live it up

-Girl constantly messaged me on fb

-I ignore girl

-Girl continues and I finally open my ear

Part 4:

-I can't get a secure lease and take the fall semester off

-I get temp job and am working to secure an apartment for Spring semester.


^That's the backstory of things. Now here's the thing, the girl from above wants me to have dinner with her. I flaked on her a few times and she really wants me to go out to lunch or dinner. I honestly haven't forgotten about the harsh words she said to me in HS and of ccourse thats what inspired me to change for thhe better. What my dilema is, should I go out with her and bust a nut whether I'm fvcking her or getting a bj and then get the last laugh this way OR should I just friendzone her in person and get the last laugh that way and move on? I'm torn with this and decided to get the oh so mighty advice from the board.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You could just charge her to the game man by not even paying attention to her. That is revenge in itself and its a player move because you shouldn't be wasting your time on sh1t anyways. Keep it mackish player
 

Gray The Prince

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3countriesPlan said:
You could just charge her to the game man by not even paying attention to her. That is revenge in itself and its a player move because you shouldn't be wasting your time on sh1t anyways. Keep it mackish player

Hmmm, you might be on to something there. Back in HS, I texted her (and any other girl) INSTANTLY no matter what I was doing. 70% of the time, I don't respond to her texts or I do it in a few hours. Rarely will you see me instantly respond to a text.
 
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