"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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English_Bloke

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Here's an experiment that I want to conduct, but I want to have some fun with it. I found a pretty good looking girl that I'm not too worried about who I want to try some stuff out on that I wouldn't usually do and see what happens.

Success is all about stepping off your island and widening your view. - some DJ legend said that once.

Background Info

I met this girl a while ago and had a fling with her. Was great but I wanted sex and she wanted love, so I gave up and we ended everything. She walks back into my life a few years later and we go out to dinner - I pull everything off perfectly and have her on the sofa with me, I say goodbye and kiss her on the cheek - just missing her lips on purpose. 4 days pass and now its the present...

Options

1) Find an event that is way out there and call her up, say im going to this event and she can come too.

2) I need some more ideas

3) I dont have any more ideas

I want something wild and out there, Im getting bored of doing Approach->Dinner Date->House->Sofa->Passion.

Suprise me with your ideas, I want to see what happens!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do u expect?

Hot sex in the beach?

Or kissing while jumping of the plane?

Or how about a threesome?
 

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Amusement Parks. Ferris Wheel Nookie. Roller Coaster = Huge Adrenaline High.

Pool. Summer. Show off the muscles. Swimming allows for lots of playful kino.

Party. Have Fun. Do the dirty in somebody elses bed room. Laugh about it later.

Sports Game? If she's into sports, this could be a decent time. Nothing terribly exciting.
 

English_Bloke

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William - you got it, the beach one sounds great...just ****ty weather right now. The plane...maybe with parachutes..could be fun...but a little serious.

I think amusement parks are great, help conquer her fear of roller costers with me, should leave a lasting impression!

Im just soo bored of going to the mall, movie, arm round shoulder, brush hand against thigh...ohh here we go..! Ill try these ideas out and let you know. Thanks!
 
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