"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What should I do next on my journey

Steam

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Well I read alot of articles and part of the HS Bible and I thought I was good to go. Went into the feild stop coming to this site and I was doing good I waas having more fun but now it's like i reverted back into the afc. I'm more depressed and not as good with girls anymore. What should I do should I go to a boot camp actually read the whole bible. Lost
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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paraguayandj

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NO, just go out there and meet more people, this time try to have fun and don't worry about fuking every girl you meet.
 

Austizzle

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Umm, i'd recommend working out, girls like a guy with a nice body.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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don't sweat it bud

this is a common stage of the dj game

at first, everything seems tip top, and the length of this time is different for everyone. but eventually, you feel like your starting to slip. this is the part where you realize that there is more to life then just girls, and eventually, things in your life start to improve. then your skills will return to you naturally

i've gone through this too, and don't worry, you'll come out of it ok
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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