"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What should I do? Need some help

wannab2008

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Hello everyone, I have been a reader for some time now but first time poster. So I'm gonna get to the situation. Back in college 5 years ago I liked this girl and I had asked her out but we never went. I dont know what exactly happened but we had stopped speaking to one another at school. But recently on facebook she had messaged me on Facebook to wish me a happy bday and from there we exchanged messages. I dont want to read to much into this but I dont think she knew that I was really attracted to her. So should I tell her during our messaging or just let it go? I would be interested in her if she was interested in me. What should i do? Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Solomon

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Stop being a punk and ask her out

Coffee
drink
dinner

whatever, be a man, let your balls hang and take intiivate, your anaylziging by paraylssis, just hang out with her and see where it goes
 
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