"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What should I do? Need some help

wannab2008

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Hello everyone, I have been a reader for some time now but first time poster. So I'm gonna get to the situation. Back in college 5 years ago I liked this girl and I had asked her out but we never went. I dont know what exactly happened but we had stopped speaking to one another at school. But recently on facebook she had messaged me on Facebook to wish me a happy bday and from there we exchanged messages. I dont want to read to much into this but I dont think she knew that I was really attracted to her. So should I tell her during our messaging or just let it go? I would be interested in her if she was interested in me. What should i do? Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon

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Stop being a punk and ask her out

Coffee
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whatever, be a man, let your balls hang and take intiivate, your anaylziging by paraylssis, just hang out with her and see where it goes
 
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