"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, there's this one girl, that I like, that hangs out with a couple of losers who talk a bunch of sh*t and try to make fun of me all the time. Thanks to these guys, this girl thinks I'm a complete goof and I'm not really sure how to change her mind and show her otherwise. The girls nice and I don't see why she hangs out with those losers, but whatever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Viper
Well, there's this one girl, that I like, that hangs out with a couple of losers who talk a bunch of sh*t and try to make fun of me all the time. Thanks to these guys, this girl thinks I'm a complete goof and I'm not really sure how to change her mind and show her otherwise. The girls nice and I don't see why she hangs out with those losers, but whatever.
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She hangs out with them because she feels secure with them. Ignore her friends, just be nice to them. Do your thing with her. Keep all convos short and brief.
 
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Hey man, you have to move on. Never focus on one girl, cuz then she becomes your one-itis and you'll never get her.
Also, she hangs out with asholes, so she's not exacly the best kind of girlfriend material. Her peer group reflects who she is/wants to be to a certain extent. Keep that in mind.
Please dont think you can "save" her from those that she hangs out with; its a lost cause anyway you cut it.
So move on, onto the next girl, never get bogged down by a little girly speedbump.
 
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