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What should i do if a girl with a bf seems interested

Nobeard

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Hi i am new here and this is my first post. I have been busy reading parts of the bible and I have to really congratulate you guys on a job well done because the stuff i have read seems to make the whole world around me make more sense.

Anyhow on to my question:

I have this science project that i have been working with these two girls. Its a fairly long project so we have been working on it all of last weekend and we will continue tomorrow and some of next weekend. Anyhow she has this boyfriend that she doesn't seem to interested in amymore. The reasons why i say this is because her friends commented once why they don't know why she is with him when he pisses her off so much and he called and she gave very short answers to his questions almost blowing his call off. Now to the part where i come in. I believe in some level she is interested because we keep having 5 second eye contact or for a lack of a better way to describe it "sexually tense" eye contact. Also, a couple nights ago we watched a scary movie and she sat next to me on the couch and ended up poking me awake and diggin her head into my arm when she didn't want to watch the scary parts. However, a night before we watched another movie and she did this with another guy who she had been friends with longer.

So what should i do? Should i move in or wait till the bf is out of the question?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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BoredDude

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If you know the guy personally don't do anything if you want to keep him on your good side, otherwise let whatever happens happen.
 

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Tough situation. I've been on both sides and I can honestly say now that I would not go after a girl who likes me when she has a BF. Unless she is totally truthful with him and breaks it off before you two even hit it off, stay away.

You have to remember that we are all brothers and banging some guy's girlfriend is just hurting each other. There are plenty of girls out there, pick one who most likely won't cheat on her boyfriend and probably YOU next.
 

djweses89

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shes interested in you, but shes also intrested in other guys shes looking for a new guy or she could just be trying to sleep with a lot of guys but most the time girls in high school have this thing where they need to date a guy before having sex ya know, anywho just try making her laugh in class USE KINO as soon as possiable DON'T BE SCARED TO ether, I'm sure she will respond possitive, also read the articles on this site too not just the DJ bible so you can get what the power of kino does, make her laugh and also remember don't get too attached to this girl, because if your just starting your DJin you dont wanna be brought down by every girl you like and dont get because your too attached.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Like I've said in a similar post.

Girls just want to have fun and have friends. Some girls will flirt with you and give you signs of interest even though they have a boyfriend. But, it doesn't always mean they want you.

If you wanna find out. You can just increase the kino and flirting with her and see where it goes. But, i'd rather go after single women than, try to ruin someone's relationship.
 

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Yea, next her. If she really wants you then that relationship will end w/her bf. Keep working out or w/e you do to improve yourself, let her keep admiring you and in the meantime, keep chasing the single ones.
 

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WC2 said:
Tough situation. I've been on both sides and I can honestly say now that I would not go after a girl who likes me when she has a BF. Unless she is totally truthful with him and breaks it off before you two even hit it off, stay away.

You have to remember that we are all brothers and banging some guy's girlfriend is just hurting each other. There are plenty of girls out there, pick one who most likely won't cheat on her boyfriend and probably YOU next.
I agree 110%
I mean.... I personally stay away from girls with boyfriends, because I know that I wouldn't want my girl to cheat on me with anther guy. Fair is fair man. And like WC2 said... if she cheated on him with you... well, odds are she'll do it again... and again..
So my advice: stay away from girls w/ boyfriends. There are PLENTY of other girls, and getting with ones with boyfriends leads to WAYY more problems/drama then its worth.
 
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