What should I do here?

[verloren]

hi guys, I have a question here.

See, I met this girl (call her J) a few weeks ago, and the only connection we had was that we were in the same class for a subject together. (we were studying in different classes for other subjects) IMO, she's a 7. J isn't the type who hangs around with guys, but she's more of the type who doesn't hold barriers to people around her.

I've been reading the bible for some time now, so I know it's just very wrong to rush in like a fool. But the semester was coming to an end, and that meant that I would only be able to see her for a few more weeks from now. (Asking her out to lunch is a bit impossible considering that our timetables clash) Yeah, you could say I was getting a little desparate here.

So I did the most AFC thing I never thought I would do.I agreed to help her out with her programming project. Yes, I know. It's a mistake. I lost my power to her right from the beginning.

So right now, I'm still helping her out with her project. I know it's a bad way to start communicating with her, but how else could I maintain contact? Oh, and I forgot to mention that she's a foreign student.

What should I do here to regain my status with J here? I don't really feel like NEXTing her, because she's a pretty unique girl in terms of character.

 

[Black_Italian]

First of all you got oneitis

Second you did not give away your power

Dam man all you did was agree to help her being a dj doesn’t mean being a ****head. If a girl asks for help with something you can say yes. You didn’t lose any of your power just follow the DJ bible and do what needs to be done from here on out. Just don’t be at her beckon call. So if she says Tuesday at 4 you say NO im busy make it Wednesday at 4 ect ect.

Also this reminds me of that thing of American Pie when Jim say he will help Nadia (the foreign student) study and she gets naked in his room. Then he walks in and says "do you need a hand" hahahahaha.

Anyway you haven’t lost any power. Your helping her out cool now just MACK the sh*t out of her and tap that foreign ass.

Ninja out

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

nexting her?


You never had her, at all... instead you're the nice boy who's helping her with her programming. If you don't make your intentions known very early on, she will see you as a friend.... I'm not sure what you could do, because withdrawing for no reason would let her know that you had alterior motives... and that you didn't genuinely want to help her.


If she doesn't show any interest, in that way, I'd say chalk it up to a friendship.

You can't pvssy-foot around these things.

Why did you not just ask her for her #, and then take her out? Instead you offered to help her ona school project? Hmmmm... that's pretty slack.

 

[Black_Italian]

She asked and he accepted it’s not a big thing man he still has many options from here. Don’t discourage the boy.

Man you can still get her.

There is this HB9 I met her 3 weeks ago in class (not school im taking a private investigator class) and I had a gf at the time so I didn’t Mack this other girl. Then last week I broke up with my gf so on Tuesday i started talking to the girl from class and by Thursday we were getting some crazy Kino happening. Now next time il get her number and take her out.

You don’t need to make a move straight away. It’s better if you do but it’s not necessary.

Ninja out

 

[verloren]

Well, I guess I still have alot to learn. I'm still a newbie in this field.

Thanks for the advice guys

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

ahh, I misread it.


She asked you to help her? I thought you asked her if she wanted some help, as a way in.