"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What should I do at this point?

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Here's the situation:

I like this girl, and I managed to get her into bed the day before new years. It was like 4am and we were just fooling around and frankly i was too high and tired to have sex so i didn't even though she was beggining for it.

I dropped her off and left for a few days...

I included her in my mass happy new years text message and she texts me back saying "thanks i got so drunk i practically got alcohol poisoning"...i then texted her back calling her a lightweight...havn't heard from her since...its only been a day though...

My friend tells me no more communication from my end until i hear from her....

what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL @ you calling her a lightweight...

It's ****y... but remember it's C&F... not C-or-F

What should you do? Not think about this chick... grab your balls and pursue some others.. fvck them, sex is good, lol... oh yea, and don't get so fvcked up next time... why so many dudes getting fvcked up around chicks on here anyway?
 
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so no more calls or texts?

and yeah....i totally regret getting ****ed up...if i ****ed her like i meant to she'd be obsessed right now...
 
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Burridge said:
My friend tells me no more communication from my end until i hear from her....

what do you guys think?
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I agree. It's just one of those things you're going to have to place trust in and work in to your mentality - if a chick likes you, she should be texting you off of her own back.

The only ones who don't are control freaks, game players or those who aren't that interested in you. ..Which is why it's such a great thing to let them contact you!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Call the chick... tell her lets go out to XXXXXXXXXX...

I'm just saying you need to chill out on one chick... have many and then all the thinking too much and pressure that you seem to be having right now will go away... you become a much more spontaneous, 'do what you feel' person and chicks will sense that in both your actions and what you say... they find it very attractive besides the insecure chicks who need to hear that you love them before you fvck you... you'll lose out on them, but honestly, you don't want them anyway
 
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