“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what should i do about this

PumpingIron13

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And i really dont wanna fvuck this up and put myself in the friend position before I really get to make my moves. Anyway I've read alot of stuff on here and alot of the DJ Bible and i think its helped me so far. You see i met her at my friends party and we kinda chilled a few times that night and had some cool conversations, i played some guitar for her n what not and i think i made a good first impression besides being pretty high lol. Anyways after that i started to talk to he rmore often at school this past week just at passing period n stuff cuz i have no classes with her. I look here straight in the eyes and always keep my cool and steer clear from any akward silences. I talk to her a little online too and she really digs my music which im stoked about and also i was telling her about how i charme dmy teacher by making a flower appear and i avoided getting a detention...she joked saying something like wow u must be smooth making fun of me a but n i was like i gues sill have to make a flower for u n then well see and she agreed. Anyways next day at school i decided not to do the trick or even talk to her at all just to not seem like i was all excited to do it and later that not online she was liek ill make a shirt of ur band maybe for battle of the bands but i am not sure n i was like fine but then no flower for you, and then she said you didnt show me a flower today, i thought this was cool cuz she noticed something i DIDNT do, and that she was maybe expecting it from me. Anyways i wanna hang out with her outside of school but im not too sure where to go from here my friend says i need to get her number but i htink it might be kinda early since weve only talked 3 4 times in person for short periods of time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i talked to a waitress only one time for about 3 minutes, and i got the number. is that too early? what im trying to say is, its not weird to ask for it.

you should get the number, and try to set up a date. try a picnic, you could bring your guitar. play some stuff for her, you (hopefully) wont be high this time, maybe you'll play even better.

just go with what feels right, and good luck.
 

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Sorry about the other post tried to delete it but it wont let me for some reason...Anyway i saw her tonight at a kick back and at first i didnt give her much attention, i chatted up like every chick besides her and made people laugh just being the life of the party somewhat and then i went and gave her 5 minutes which was a little biut more the nother chicks, then i cut her off again for a good amount of time doing what i did before and noticed her noticing me talkingto all the other chicks n making them laugh, (ps i was wondering if its a good thing that when i talk to her she always seems to remember everythign ive talked to her about in the past) but anyways at the end of the party i talked to her a little more then when i was leaving i saw her running to her friends car and i called her over to my window and i did my magic trick where i make a flower appear and she seemed really excited about that...did i do well ?
 
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