"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What should an Alpha do?

GodOFcharm

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Here goes. I have finals during a few weeks into the summer which means I only have a few more chances to get anywhere with any girl until next year. I come from taking the tests and i spot a girl that I knew sitting by herself under a tree. She usually hangs around a group of people but to my surprise, they weren't there. I go to her and begin talking to her. She begins to tell me that she was waiting for her friends who went to a nearby fast food joint. I asked why she hadn't gone with them, she responds that she didn't want to go because there was a guy that she liked. This guy also happens to like another girl. I continue the conversation to see if I can get her mind off him and towards me since I was attracted to her. But for some reason, I found she opened up rather quickly, which was unlike her. She tells me that I'm a good friend to her. I sense that I'm heading towards the friend zone, what should I do if she's attracted to this other guy while Im slowly headed towards the friend zone? What should be my best response?

help me out.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GodOFcharm

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Really?

Aw, come on. There should be something. Isn't there a way to get out of it?
 

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There is always a way out of it. Act like a man. Read the bible bro. You apply the same 'techniques' on this girl as you would to a girl you just met, and watch it go.
 

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It seems you went into comfort zone too quickly. This is how you get into the friend zone.

You have to first attract her before you start going into comfort. You obvioulsy didnt create attraction. What you could do is back off a little for a while and go get another girl and run a jealously plotline. But start running attraction game. It might be a little too late but you could give it a try

Love,
Marvel
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GodOFcharm

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This may prove difficult if there are only small areas of opprotunity. I don't see her often, maybe every other day. Is there a way to get a large amount of jealously within a small window? For example, if she looks my way to get a hello from me (i.e. she stares at me to catch my attention) should I instead give her a small glance and talk to a couple of female friends that I have?
 

Zerotwoonenine

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get her number, get her on dates and turn thing around, i believe in you bro.
 

GodOFcharm

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So, turn the charm switch on. I play everything as if she never mentioned the friend thing?
 

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the way youve described the situation you have a 50 50 chance.

you stated that the guy she likes...likes another girl. So this is what you do, if she has said your a good friend of hers BACK OFF, you dont want to fvck yourself more and become her emotional tampon.

your gonna need to state more about yourself....hows your role in society...how do you look, what do you do for fun.

its weird for me but ive come to the conclusion that it is very easy to get out of a LJBF into an LTR and only an LTR. By ONLY i mean if your planning on getting out of the LJBF zone into a lets fvck thing...it aint going to work.

anways bro write some more stuff about you and your girl...till then late
 

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What the ****. You've got finals, and you're worried about a girl? Damn man, prioritise. Whats more important?

The "alpha'd" pass his exams first.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You see her every other day and say that isn't often? That's plenty often man.
 

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Im in honors so the finals dont worry me. And the other every day, give or take. Well, here's another factor to consider. Sometimes when I talk to other girls around her, she comes and joins in but primarily focuses on me. I have extremely nerdy friends (they help me with stuff like studying because I hate to study) so even when I'm surrounded by them, SHE STILL COMES OVER AND TALKS TO ME! She doesn't even like my friends but sneaks in a weak hello before talking to me individiually. So, yeah.
 
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