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What separates Indian men from Black and Latino men? (desirability)

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DonGQ

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I am an Indian guy and so many of my Puerto Rican, Colombian, Mexican, and Brazilian friends have told me I would fit right in when I am in Latin America, so many have told me that I could easily pass for Latino.

Now the thing is, I have met Black people down here who say Indians (some like the guy from Heroes) are no different from Blacks and some look just like Black people.

So obviously an Indian guy could pass for Black or Spanish. Thing is, why?

I mean if I had an order of desirability of women it would go somewhat like this:

1. Latinas
2. Dark Featured or Exotic White girls like tanned Italian, some Eastern European, and Greek, etc.
3. Asian women
4. Mixed race women (White + Asian mix)
5. White + Black mix
6. Arabic/Middle Eastern women
7. Blondes (Scandinavia and Germany)
8. Western White women (American mainly, the typical brown haired look)
9. Indian women
10. Gingers

Thing is, most women in my area fall into category 8 and same with most women in upper class areas.

These women will quickly go with a Black or Latino guy but an Indian guy, unless he is super rich they say on the internet, is not going to have much success.

Where is the divide? What separates an Indian guy from a Latin or Black guy?

Again, my real life experience has not confirmed that Indian men struggle. Thing is, on the internet this is a common belief so I decided to get more info on it.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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n00bPimp

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Its not just about the looks. Most latino and black guys have one thing that indians dont usually have, something you have to be born with, because it can not be tought. That thing is called SWAGGER. These guys have swagger, they have the sexuality and it oozes from them. You know what oozes from indian guys? Nothing but curry.
 

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Indian guys who grew up in the United States have no problems with White women. I've never seen them with Latina or Black women but they tend not to be as open minded as White women or Asian women. So there is nothing wrong with their looks.

Actually, scratch part of that. I've known Indian guys from Trinidad, Guyana, and Jamaica who are married to Black women.

It's far more the cultural differences which are vast between Western females and Indian men raised in conservative enviornments. That kind of lifestyle can be stifling to their sociosexual development. I was a cabdriver for years and most of my work friends at the time were Sikhs from Punjab. Even those who were married with kids could not talk to a female without being shy and nervous or a dominant brusque assh0le. They were curious about other women though and I know more than a few who frequented prostitutes or would buy liquor for the under-21 (alledgedly WAY under though I never saw it as I would've kicked the sh!t out of them) White/Black/Latina girls who they drove home at night in exchange for sex. Not that other races didn't do the same thing but not to the same extent.
 

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