What separates an HB7 from an HB9?

[Dan.Lifestyle]

Overthinking for fun.

****ed an HB7 last night. She hit me up over snapchat(around 2am) I invited her over to smoke, went as smooth as could be.

So today, I can't help but think, what's the difference? Why don't "models" do this? If I make more money, drive a nicer car, have a bigger social circle, is that the only way to attract these girls? Doesn't that seem like playing into the problem?

I think it might legitimately be the infamous pedastal we put girls on. We don't put HB7s on pedastals, so they never get a big head. But "pretty" girls get blown up all the time.

So, how do we beat this? How do we, after judt meeting these girls who have multiple guys telling them their looks make them valuable, unwork this mindset? So they don't act like their looks hold any sway?

(Hopefully this post makes sense!)

 

[zekko]

How do we, after judt meeting these girls who have multiple guys telling them their looks make them valuable, unwork this mindset?

Your own post is saying their looks make them valuable.

 

[Dan.Lifestyle]

Your own post is saying their looks make them valuable.

Well I'm being honest of course. For example I'm very into the nightclub business and pretty girls can actually create more money. So in more than a few ways you can you argue they're more valuable, yeah sure. What am I'm asking then is there no way to get around the value game? The whole "I've got to appear more valuable than her" schmuck. Is there no way we can get these girls to drop the act and just connect like regular people?(by that I mean people who aren't regularly placed on a pedestal)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well I'm being honest of course. For example I'm very into the nightclub business and pretty girls can actually create more money. So in more than a few ways you can you argue they're more valuable, yeah sure. What am I'm asking then is there no way to get around the value game? The whole "I've got to appear more valuable than her" schmuck. Is there no way we can get these girls to drop the act and just connect like regular people?(by that I mean people who aren't regularly placed on a pedestal)

Perhaps its why some neg an insecurity or treat them like dirt.

 

[zonn]

They sexual market value is high. If yours was on the same level, they'll drop through "act" and treat you as an equal.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Overthinking for fun.

****ed an HB7 last night. She hit me up over snapchat(around 2am) I invited her over to smoke, went as smooth as could be.

So today, I can't help but think, what's the difference? Why don't "models" do this? If I make more money, drive a nicer car, have a bigger social circle, is that the only way to attract these girls? Doesn't that seem like playing into the problem?

I think it might legitimately be the infamous pedastal we put girls on. We don't put HB7s on pedastals, so they never get a big head. But "pretty" girls get blown up all the time.

So, how do we beat this? How do we, after judt meeting these girls who have multiple guys telling them their looks make them valuable, unwork this mindset? So they don't act like their looks hold any sway?

(Hopefully this post makes sense!)

Their SMV is so high that they have their pick of who they want to bang. If you were Leonardo Decaprio, would you be banging 9’s ands 10’s or 6 and 7’s?

-Augustus-

 

[zekko]

Well I'm being honest of course. For example I'm very into the nightclub business and pretty girls can actually create more money. So in more than a few ways you can you argue they're more valuable, yeah sure.

There's no question they're more valuable. It just kind of sounded like you were blaming their high SMV on those pesky guys who are telling her that her looks make her valuable. It's not those guys, it's a fact, her looks make her valuable.

When some guy here wants to brag, he says he dates HB9s. Guys here confirm repeatedly that we don't care about a girl's career, it's her looks that make her attractive. So yeah, the best looking girls have the highest SMV.

 

[Hal9000]

Why would a "model" go hang out at someones house she just met on Snapchat? Why would any quality woman? Do you go to the old folks home to find women to date? Why not?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There's no question they're more valuable. It just kind of sounded like you were blaming their high SMV on those pesky guys who are telling her that her looks make her valuable. It's not those guys, it's a fact, her looks make her valuable.

When some guy here wants to brag, he says he dates HB9s. Guys here confirm repeatedly that we don't care about a girl's career, it's her looks that make her attractive. So yeah, the best looking girls have the highest SMV.

SMV == SEXUAL MARKET VALUE. It has nothing to do with whose the highest quality person, the strongest financial earner or the best relationship worthy person.

Can we figure out from our collective wisdom that perhaps really high SMV is a terrible choice for a gf or wife? Perhaps its best as a man to have at least 1 SMV pt higher than a woman you use for that purpose? And even then she can still cheat due to insecurity.

 

[Dan.Lifestyle]

Good replies, first time I've heard the term SMV. But it's a good way to explain it for sure.

Can we figure out from our collective wisdom that perhaps really high SMV is a terrible choice for a gf or wife? Perhaps its best as a man to have at least 1 SMV pt higher than a woman you use for that purpose? And even then she can still cheat due to insecurity.

This seems to be a good idea. I mean if it's got to be a battle of SMV then of course the one who has higher value is in control. Not too high mind you or yes they'd would more than likely cheat because of insecurity.

 

[Dan.Lifestyle]

Why would a "model" go hang out at someones house she just met on Snapchat? Why would any quality woman? Do you go to the old folks home to find women to date? Why not?

To be fair, most 20 somethings use snapchat/instagram so once they're built up its not impossible. Same core DM function. It's just about becoming the guy she wants to chat with. That liking all your posts and commenting on your ****? Modern day IOIs

 

[Dan.Lifestyle]

Perhaps its why some neg an insecurity or treat them like dirt.

I thought of this as I was typing my first post. Not to say it wouldn't work but it'd be pretty temporary i'd imagine unless the girl wasn't smart enough to put two and two together that your SMV really isn't actually higher haha

No what Im learning from the replies here is that Market Value is the way to go. There's tons of ways you can express that and make that higher and I like that.(ex: Social circle, pre-selection, Insta, etc.)

 

[Visionist]

Pre selection is mad stuff. Take a 7 walking down the street, hand in hand, and watch literally every single girl rubberneck like crazy eyeing you up and her, comparing herself to your girl and looking at you like a prize, even if you look like sh!t.

Now imagine taking a 9 hand in hand down that same street.

Finally, imagine just walking down that street alone. Unless you're a model, few women even notice you exist.

As for the hand holding, it should happen as soon as the date starts. She must comply, or be Nexted.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

All women cheat. At all levels. The stairs dont stop at floor 1 or 200. Whatever sexually turns you on is your desire. Dknt be afraid of the hot girl. Thats were the pedestal lies. As soon as you fear her leaving you its game over for your pathetic soul.

Yeah but do you sign up for the "hotgirl" bullshyt when a female a level down will still sexually satisfy you and offer more perks and benefits and less bullshyt?