"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what s failure ? a reevaluation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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with women or any enterprise you ll fail a lot

failing is natural

if you re doing something you ve never done before , don t expect plain sailing it makes sense to know that you ll encounter difficulties along the way

the attitude is not to give up but to carry on or change tack slightly

maybe we should give failure another name

failure = difficulty obstacle ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This guy speaks the truth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wait_out said:
Aptly demonstrated by your posting history alpharomeo
Some people ask themselves "Why did I fail and how can I improve next time?"

Alpharomeo is not on of these people.
 

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I thought this was a good, sensible, well-reasoned post. I would be happy to share this advice with others.

In other news, it's an excellent season for outdoor skating in hell
 
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