"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What really frustrates me with dating

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bigdave17

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Women don't like being "approached", they want it to be a very natural and smooth process where they feel like it happened with no effort but most of the time that's very difficult. There is a super cute girl who actually went to my high school that works as a teacher but waitress part time at a local pub. How in God's green earth am I gonna build enough rapport with her to ask her out??

When I go out to bars and clubs, every cute girl is with multiple friends

how do you guys navigate through all these extremely annoying obstacles???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bro you don't need to build much rapport to ask for a date. If you're as good looking as you claim, spark up a convo, be lighthearted, make her laugh then drop "we should go for a drink, when are you free".

It's like you're making this harder than it needs to be, stop living in your head or you will have a mental breakdown soon.
 
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bigdave17 said:
Women don't like being "approached", they want it to be a very natural and smooth process where they feel like it happened with no effort but most of the time that's very difficult.
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only an anti-social woman truly dislikes being approached though, the rest only like it when guys they like approach them
 
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