squirrels
Master Don Juan
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I've actually been going OUTSIDE this site for advice lately. Mainly to a few close friends who used to frequent this place but no longer do. Why?
Mainly because I don't trust the opinions of people on here as being EXPERIENCED opinions. And I'm as guilty of this as anyone, but it seems like a lot of the opinions coming from people here are opinions based on an understanding they got by reading articles by Pook or Fingers or God knows who else. They come up with this combined philosophy and use THAT to answer questions on here. And 9 times out of 10, they're right...but occasionally you come up with a sticky situation (like this thread) where you can really see what people HAVE EXPERIENCE with women and are talking from that real experience and which people are just running the thought through their unified Don Juan processing formula and spitting out the "correct" answer.
These are also the people who are so quick to holler "AFC! AFC!" at everyone, as if there was this absolute scale from 0 to "DJ" and that every action landed you at a specific point on that scale.
All I'm saying is take everything on here with a grain of salt. Just a grain. Because like I said, 9 times in 10, they're probably 90% correct. But learn to spot people who speak from experience rather than rhetoric, and understand that there's a time and place for both.
That includes my own advice.
I speak from rhetoric and what I understand to be correct probably 90% of the time because while my experience is growing, it's by no means profound. The thing about this place is that we're all here because we need something, and we're all still learning.
I would go so far as to say NO MAN on here is an expert in women.
Mainly because I don't trust the opinions of people on here as being EXPERIENCED opinions. And I'm as guilty of this as anyone, but it seems like a lot of the opinions coming from people here are opinions based on an understanding they got by reading articles by Pook or Fingers or God knows who else. They come up with this combined philosophy and use THAT to answer questions on here. And 9 times out of 10, they're right...but occasionally you come up with a sticky situation (like this thread) where you can really see what people HAVE EXPERIENCE with women and are talking from that real experience and which people are just running the thought through their unified Don Juan processing formula and spitting out the "correct" answer.
These are also the people who are so quick to holler "AFC! AFC!" at everyone, as if there was this absolute scale from 0 to "DJ" and that every action landed you at a specific point on that scale.
All I'm saying is take everything on here with a grain of salt. Just a grain. Because like I said, 9 times in 10, they're probably 90% correct. But learn to spot people who speak from experience rather than rhetoric, and understand that there's a time and place for both.
That includes my own advice.
I speak from rhetoric and what I understand to be correct probably 90% of the time because while my experience is growing, it's by no means profound. The thing about this place is that we're all here because we need something, and we're all still learning. I would go so far as to say NO MAN on here is an expert in women.