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I just want to know the racial demographic of this forum...Im european-american.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Second that, what's up Toast lolDanger said:African American of Israeli descent.
Im african american, but most dudes on this forum are white euro americans and white europeans. Most PUA forums are similar.RedBox said:I just want to know the racial demographic of this forum...Im european-american.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know about that. Seems like this forum is at least 50% minority (lot of posts from black/indian/asian dudes complaining about not being able to pull white women).Jaylan said:Im african american, but most dudes on this forum are white euro americans and white europeans. Most PUA forums are similar.
And this is why Judge nismo has to close this thread.Jaylan said:^Way to be a troll. You can just answer the question instead of trying to sh!t stir like a loser.