nvictor
Senior Don Juan
No kidding.
Provengo dalla famiglia. La cosa nostra.
Provengo dalla famiglia. La cosa nostra.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What race are you?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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Yay, no flame war yet lol.
I'm black, born in France to African parents.
I'm black, born in France to African parents.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Rebound Material said:
lmao :crackup:
For Aiur!
fiiine. I'm white.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
me toomr_elor said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
repost of this with pole here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116409
Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
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Black with about a quarter white in me.
insanity
Master Don Juan
native american, but you wouldn't guess it from my looks. i've been around people who shoot my kind down and their like bests friends with me cause i'm not the typical looking indian. but i'm not sensetive to racial jokes cause most times there true. the new rocky movie has a bad azz indian joke and i thought it was funny. even dave chapelle and chris rock use indians as punchlines. people are to sensetive nowadays.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I love how White is all one race.
I'm of Danish descent actually.
I'm of Danish descent actually.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.