"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What problems are you having?

Dante1a

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Hey guys!

It's been awhile since I have been on this forum, but I see that while there are some differences, very few things really change.

The reason I'm writing this is because a great personal trainer, meditation coach and I are working out a new podcast to help men move forward in life: spiritually, mentally, physically, relationally, and financially. We won't be rehashing material found here and other places, because there are many great places to handle that. However, it will come up at least a little bit.

Since this will be totally free and done as a service to men, I wanted to ask:

What problems are you having?

What do you really wish podcasts like this would solve?

Your help would be really appreciated. Hopefully we can be of value.

Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Atom Smasher

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I think you're not getting responses because your questions are way too broad.

The problems of men in Western civilization are pretty well defined by now, and they are universal in scope. The problems we in this forum are facing are the same that all men in Western civilization are facing. The only difference is that we here at SS have a deeper understanding of male/female dynamics than the general population.
 

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@Atom Smasher

Agreed. The first thing that I thought of when he mentioned problems were the ants that are trying to
invade my house...
 

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@Atom Smasher

Agreed. The first thing that I thought of when he mentioned problems were the ants that are trying to
invade my house...
Amdro ant bait works really well. Get the kind that kills any kind of ant, and the one that you spread outside, around the perimeter of your house. They eat that instead of getting into the foundation, they bring it back to the nest, and everyone of of them dies. Yay!
 

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Amdro ant bait works really well. Get the kind that kills any kind of ant, and the one that you spread outside, around the perimeter of your house. They eat that instead of getting into the foundation, they bring it back to the nest, and everyone of of them dies. Yay!
Appreciated. I've been using bleach........probably not a good idea!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Appreciated. I've been using bleach........probably not a good idea!
lol, my dad used toothpaste to plug the holes :)

Terro liquid bait works well if they are coming out of the tiny holes in your molding, etc. They'll take that back to the nests as well. Amdro a few times a year along your perimeter will keep them from even coming into the foundation.
 
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