"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What problems are you having?

Dante1a

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Hey guys!

It's been awhile since I have been on this forum, but I see that while there are some differences, very few things really change.

The reason I'm writing this is because a great personal trainer, meditation coach and I are working out a new podcast to help men move forward in life: spiritually, mentally, physically, relationally, and financially. We won't be rehashing material found here and other places, because there are many great places to handle that. However, it will come up at least a little bit.

Since this will be totally free and done as a service to men, I wanted to ask:

What problems are you having?

What do you really wish podcasts like this would solve?

Your help would be really appreciated. Hopefully we can be of value.

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you're not getting responses because your questions are way too broad.

The problems of men in Western civilization are pretty well defined by now, and they are universal in scope. The problems we in this forum are facing are the same that all men in Western civilization are facing. The only difference is that we here at SS have a deeper understanding of male/female dynamics than the general population.
 

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@Atom Smasher

Agreed. The first thing that I thought of when he mentioned problems were the ants that are trying to
invade my house...
 

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@Atom Smasher

Agreed. The first thing that I thought of when he mentioned problems were the ants that are trying to
invade my house...
Amdro ant bait works really well. Get the kind that kills any kind of ant, and the one that you spread outside, around the perimeter of your house. They eat that instead of getting into the foundation, they bring it back to the nest, and everyone of of them dies. Yay!
 

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Amdro ant bait works really well. Get the kind that kills any kind of ant, and the one that you spread outside, around the perimeter of your house. They eat that instead of getting into the foundation, they bring it back to the nest, and everyone of of them dies. Yay!
Appreciated. I've been using bleach........probably not a good idea!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Appreciated. I've been using bleach........probably not a good idea!
lol, my dad used toothpaste to plug the holes :)

Terro liquid bait works well if they are coming out of the tiny holes in your molding, etc. They'll take that back to the nests as well. Amdro a few times a year along your perimeter will keep them from even coming into the foundation.
 
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