Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Prize Shall I Give?

StoneCold

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Yo!!!!!

I have been dating a Nice sweet Girl for a Few weeks!!!!!

Now i Give her smiley stickers when she does somthing unique or impress,s me!!!!!

and its works amazingly............

I have told her Once she Gets 5 stickers she Gets a Prize..shes on 3 ..:)

Guyz I need Sum advice On what I can Give her?????

AND it cant Be Sumthing dirty...or Sex related

????:) :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs

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.......this sounds like a Bjerte thread...

How about a super sticker?

Comeon here, this doesn't even deserve an intelligent answer.
 

PRMoon

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Oh my god! Are you dating a 5 year old? Stickers leading upto a prize?! This has to be a joke.
 

Nighthawk

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Sometimes women like being treated like five year olds.

Sounds like a fun authority game to me. I've had girl's competing for arbitrary 'points' or 'medals' loads of times. They eat that shyt up.

If it really can't be sexual, keep the power frame with the prize - ie YOU. Your time, your creativity, but preferably not your money.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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