What point do you STOP playing the game?

[AMF]

Being apart vs. Being together

"Abscence makes the heart grow fonder" vs. "Out of Sight, out of mind."

When your seeing someone...

which is true?

 

[AMF]

Come on guys...

 

[516]

I dont know. I was always under the impression that we "play the games" to weed out all the crap thats out there, and when we find someone that we are actually interested in building a future around, and one who feels the same way about us, that we loosen up with the games A LITTLE. If this is what you have done to get her, and you were so successful, you shouldnt want to change too much because if you go to being a wuss, she will lose interest.

 

[Bonhomme]

This is a tough one.

A part of me is thinking "why fix it if it's working?"

You're going out with her and having a good time, right?

My advice would be that it's OK to show a bit more interest, but not to spoil her by overdoing it. Be more available, but not always available. Keep control of your life. Your independence and control of the situation are part of what attracts her to you.

All said, it looks like YOU should be giving US advice, not the other way around.

 

[Bonhomme]

This is too funny

It looks like 516 and I were saying essentially the same thing right at the same time.

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Your earlier post was better, AMF.

 

[Walden]

Ten minutes after I'm dead

 

[Player_Supreme]

You play the game until you no longer desire to play it anymore and you want to settle down with just one female.

 

[squirrels]

You stop "playing the game" when the game is over.

You know when that happens, right?