"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What podcast are you listening to?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Smooth_texter
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Pick 2 or 3.
Listed to them for an year or two max. Afterwards stop. Endless podcasts about hypergamy just lead to red pill rage (and recycle topics after a while).
Better to learn by practice.
If you get Brave browser for your phone there's an option in there somewhere to have youtube play while screen is off.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I like Tim Ferris, Chris Williamson, Joe Rogan, but only if they have interesting guests which is pretty rare. The only solo podcaster I'll listen to is Huberman.
I'd say try to find authors, academics, etc that you like and just listen to podcasts that they guest star in.