"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What places are good to go out with girls?

BannedGod

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I really lack imagination... All I can think of is coffee shops, movies, go outside for a walk (scratch that one since it's pretty cold and snowing where I live). Where else? I feel like my options are so limited because of the winter -_-
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BannedGod

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DJDamage said:
Your options should increase because of the winter: Ice Skating, Skiing/snowboarding, sledding, having a snow fight, building a snow man etc.....
What about inside dates when's it's cold as hell?
 

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BannedGod said:
What about inside dates when's it's cold as hell?
You should really search for it but I compiled of ideas taken from sosuave and my own.

Walk in the park - throwing freezbe, football, soccer. Paddle boat around a lake.

Mini Golf

Bowling

Ice Skating

Pool Hall

Art Museums/Galleries

Comedy Clubs

Movie - Horror,comedy or suspense. Good for a third date.

Beach - go get some pizza and play freezbe, volleyball. Moonlight walking.

Rent a movie in your place - Anything really. Have some drinks, some snacks get kino going.

Carnival

Amusement Parks

Fair

Rock Climbing.

Planetarium

Mall - get a massage in a spa with your date ( aqua massage + some relaxation toys or insence )and go for the movies.

Skiing/snowboarding

rollerblading

Theatrical Play

Boating

hiking or bikeriding

Driving around in a car.

Arcade

Laser tag

Go-Karting

Sport game: Basketbal/tennis and then a picnic.

Board game: Twister or other exciting game.

community events

haunted house

Sporting Events

Horseback riding.

Cultural food,

Go Sledding tubing when it snows

thrift shopping/flea market

pottery workshop

Art festival - Worshops, museum gallaries. Learn to paint.

Zoo or petting zoo

Swimming pool/hot tub = Late at night, outdoors in the dark.

Bar with a Patio - play darts.

Aquarium

Get a fire pit going on the beach or in the woods.

Dance Lessons- Salsa clubs.

Factory tours - look it up.

Jazz - coffee houses, bar. festivals.

Going to an icecream place.

1 day commuinty classes - Painting, photography, dancing and sailing.

- Walking tours or bus tours in your city

- Charity walks/runs/bike rides

- Voulenteering

- Day trip

- Big Boat trip

- Wild water rafting.

- Star gazing

- Boat rental places

- Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend.

- Flee market

- playgorund.

- Monster track rally

- feeding ducks in a pound.

- Drive in movies.

- Carridge pulled by a horse.

- Fishing pools

- hot air ballooning

- Plant trees.

- Cooking class/wine tasting.

- shooting range

- Dave and Busters

- Martini Lounges

- Breakfast. Brunch. Lunch. Dinner.

- live concert

- Karaoke/singing

- Coffee houses

- Circus

- Watch fireworks

- Wrestling

- Batting cages

- Casino's

- DINNER THEATRE

- HAY RIDES

- HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES

- JET SKIS

- KITE FLYING

- LIMOUSINE DATE

- LIVE MUSIC - Concert.

- Ping pong

- Auto Show

- Go on a scavenger hunt

- pet store

fun zone places - trampoline bumper cars.

- Virtual reality tours.

- exotic restaurants, bubble tea places.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oldschooler said:
Take her to the forest/beach have a fire.
Drive to a nice place and go for a walk.

If it was a first date for me, I'd buy drinks, drinking games, bring a sterio and drive out some where private pump the music chill drink and let the good times roll.
Ok don't ever take a girl to a forrest on a first date your gonna come off as a serial rapest/killer, trust me bad experiences
 

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typical said:
Ok don't ever take a girl to a forrest on a first date your gonna come off as a serial rapest/killer, trust me bad experiences
:crackup:

Seriously though. Go out where you want to go. Remember, you're not trying to impress her. You're screening her to see if she can handle the man that you are. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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For the first time i recommend the cinema, wont have to talk for long that way, and youl have the film as a conversation piece at the end.
 

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typical said:
Ok don't ever take a girl to a forrest on a first date your gonna come off as a serial rapest/killer, trust me bad experiences
This chick I was going to go on a date with last week said that she thought dinner was too formal and then she asked me to go on a walk through the woods. Scared me off.
 

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nice list for a person who has got some money and lots of time in his hands. what would recommend for a person who works for more than 12hrs a day 6 days a week and very little time left to go out sarging in the clubs. any options?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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schttrj said:
nice list for a person who has got some money and lots of time in his hands. what would recommend for a person who works for more than 12hrs a day 6 days a week and very little time left to go out sarging in the clubs. any options?
Make lots of money, then retire!
 

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BeyondCharm said:
Make lots of money, then retire!
Be sure to buy a Benz/ BMW and you can have the time of your life!

@ DJ Damage, I love that long-ass list. It needs to be archived. +1 rep!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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