"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what pisses me off the most

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here's one thing that just pisses me off... when girls question my priorities when they themselves dont know how its like to work, live by yourself and sustain urself fully.... i guess thats something that comes with maturity.. i really need to brush up on qualifying techniques... /end of rant
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sav said:
here's one thing that just pisses me off... when girls question my priorities when they themselves dont know how its like to work, live by yourself and sustain urself fully.... i guess thats something that comes with maturity.. i really need to brush up on qualifying techniques... /end of rant
That was beatch test and you failed. MooseGod is right! Don't let them get at you. Brush it off and keep walking.
 

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ZenGodMod said:
That was beatch test and you failed. MooseGod is right! Don't let them get at you. Brush it off and keep walking.
i did brush it off, pisses me off though... im only human
 
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