"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What pics of the EX to show on Facebook.

Szyzzlin

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I'm dating again after an ending an LTR. Should I delete all my Ex's pics?? Will women checking out my profile be deterred by pics of me and EX?? Or could it work in my favour as they will see me with hot chicks? thoughts
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Deadly_Ripped

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One question to answer yours:

Is she better looking than you?

If so, then keep them up. If not, then take them down.
 

Alanswer

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1- Put more.
Even pics of some hot (female) friends (with you if possible).
It goes for DHV (demonstration of high value). Better than to have nothing or to have several pictures of you being alone like some kind of looser who advertizes the fact that he is needy. Avoid the "that's my fashion book, dating profile..." kind of stuff...

If a girl ask you are these girls, you can say some are friends some are Exes. "I just keep adding, I forgot to take them down" or "we're still friends so it's cool."

2- Unless you're a indeed a model or very handsome guy. In this case, better if they think you're single. So, only some pictures of you. Guys may think it's cheesy but girls will see no problem there, on the contrary.

3- OR no pictures at all (just 1 of you if you wish to).

There's no one thing that works for everyone. It depends on who you are and what you want. YOU have to make a choice.

Alanswer / NO-LJBF.com
 

neghitzbrah

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Broke up with my ex 3 months ago. Bro, I went from 2k pics to 400. I'd say 3/4 of those pics I deleted were with the ex.

I deleted the intimate ones that made us look like a couple and left more than a few on there. But I didn't delete too much that got rid of my past. Plus I had a lot of pics from when I was fat, got rid of most of those haha. Keyword is MOST.

Don't forget your past, it makes you who you are today. And yes, if she is hot then it doesn't hurt to keep those in there, too. win.
 
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