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This question often gets posed on forums and other parts of the net.
“What personality is most attractive to women?
Well, it depends on who you ask.
Among the pickup community (aka the “false prophets”), you’ll most certainly hear a “****y funny” personality is your best bet.
In fact, listen to what this pickup artist/manosphere douchebag had to say:
“The biggest game mistake you can make is to relax the initial game that hooked the girl. I’m not a natural seducer, so when I leak out my normal non-game self to girls I’ve been having sex with, I soon experience various bouts of flaking and emotional outbursts that suggest her attraction for me is waffling”
That’s interesting!
Could one not argue that his “normal non-game self”(aka his REAL PERSONALITY) is not that attractive in general?
He continues,
“This leaves men who aren’t naturals at game with two options. The first is to apply game as long as it takes to get a couple doses of sex and then ease more into his natural character. This allows him to more or less “be himself,” but it runs the risk that the girl will get bored of his natural self and move on. The second option is to wear the game mask for as long as he’s with the girl to keep extracting sexual rewards from her. It’s clear that the second option is most economical so that men do not keep losing their sources of sex.”
What this means is that you must find a functional game that you don’t mind always applying, and it has to be effective enough to get you the sex you want. So while I don’t enjoy being an ******* to women, I don’t mind applying other techniques that attract them: being overly ****y and funny. I can be ****y and funny until the cows come home without any inner conflict, and thankfully this is enough for me to receive and maintain sexual relationships. If it wasn’t, however, I’d have to find another strategy that I could always use when in the presence of women. “
If you think this is good advice, smash your head against the wall as many times as it takes to realize that this is BEYOND MORONIC!
Now this particular pickup artist/manospherian/scum of the earth /whatever you want to call him, is nowhere near the first choice physically speaking for the majority of women. I truly believe he could make some changes to his appearance and become more physically attractive though.
As I’ve already said, looks matter a lot. This is especially true when meeting women through cold approach as this “guru” does. (Or at least attempts to
)
So not only is he physically unattractive to women, he makes himself even less appealing by running ****y, jackass, jock game.
Most manospherians like to blame their struggles with American women on feminism, westernization, and as a result become incredibly misogynistic. Is it just me, or could it be that women just aren’t attracted to them?
There’s even a subculture of maospherians that pridefully boast about playing “masculine” video games. (I wish I was kidding)
Makes sense. Most manospherians look very much like “gamers”. Most of them look like they just put down the video game controller long enough to write their latest obnoxious blog post:
“10 reasons why I’m more alpha than you”
“5 reasons why my life is awesome and yours sucks”
Or my favorite,
“How to conquer depression forever” (Wow dude! You’re amazing! You can seriously cure someone’s clinical depression with your blog post?)
Don’t worry manospherians, there will be tons of “men only gamer nights”
(A typical Saturday night for the manosphere gang)
Anyhow, excuse me for getting sidetracked. Manosphere douches tend to bring out the worst in me.
So back to the question, “What personality is most attractive to women?”
YOUR PERSONALITY IS MOST ATTRACTIVE!
As I keep saying, the essentials are key.
When you work on the physical aspects of the essentials (physique, style and grooming), you become much more visually appealing to women.
Having hobbies/a passion is is also VERY important though.
I’m quite sure every guy has a special talent/hobby.
Perhaps you’re a good artist? Perhaps you’re good at a particular sport? Perhaps you enjoy writing?
For example, let’s say you’re a talented musician. You love playing guitar. You’re in a band and make a little cash on the side. You’re constantly trying to improve your craft and very much enjoy writing new pieces and jamming with the band.
You can speak about music with great passion and enthusiasm. This will be VERY attractive to women.
When you work on your financial situation, your personality also greatly improves. For example, guys with a little cash tucked away tend to feel more at ease. They’re not constantly stressed out and worrying about money. Guys with a little spare cash are often happier in general because of the freedom money provides. Also, if you weren’t born into money, some spare cash tends to be sign of a great life accomplishment. You completed a rigorous education program, you got that promotion at work, or you busted your ass with some type of business that is now thriving. I truly believe every guy should be trying to improve their financial situation.
When you work on your physique, improve your style, improve your grooming, have some hobbies/passions, and work on your financial situation, your confidence will be through the roof. Confidence is a huge part of the essentials.
Confidence is also about the only thing the pickup ****s get right.
In fact, it’s by the far the most attractive personality trait to women.
While confidence is very attractive, arrogance and ****iness is NOT!
For example, I am quite sure of myself. However, I furthest thing from some arrogant jekroff in constant need of reassurance.
I used to work as an orderly at one point. Anyhow, one of the other orderly’s is an amazing golfer. He regularly shoots rounds under par. I believe he even shot a round of 63 on a par 72 course before. He does not go around boasting about this at all. In fact, he rarely mention golf unless you do. Why does he need to brag? He knows he’s good.
Working on the essentials can really ramp up your personality.
Obviously different guys will have different default personalities even with a lot of confidence. Some guys are more outgoing, some are more quiet, some laid back.
Let me reveal my personality a bit,
I tend to be a very laid back guy. I just go with the flow and don’t get too affected by life’s ups and downs.
Last summer I was going to the beach a lot with this one particular girl. We had tons of fun together. She often googled beaches close by and suggested the one we went to most days. I didn’t mind. I was up for whatever. We would hit the odd beach from time to time that was not quite as advertised. We still had loads of fun regardless.
I’m also a nice guy and tend to smile a lot.(Oh no, I just set myself up for tons of ridicule by the manosphere crowd for being so “beta”) Yes, you read that right. I try and help others out if I can. I also tend to smile a lot too. The way I see it, each day you can wake up with good health, it’s a great day and good enough reason for me to smile.
I have a witty, dry, sarcastic sense of humor. Women seem to find my sarcasm amusing. There’s nothing wrong with being funny. Women like a good sense of humor. Just don’t think you need to be a comedian and turn into a real clown like some pickup artist. Women will be laughing for all the wrong reasons.
Although I am very nice and easy going, I also have a backbone. I don’t tolerate bad behavior WHATSOEVER! Guys will find when they can meet the types of women they’re attracted to consistently, the ones who treat them poorly, regardless of how attractive they are will get the walking papers REAL QUICK!
So yeah, my real personality is VERY attractive to women. I’m just “being me” I take care of myself physically and work on my lifestyle. I feel no need to pretend to be something I’m not. Women seem to like me just how I am.
One “daygamer”/actress hirer is quoted saying that he hates self-development and life coaching. He says it’s just an excuse not to cold approach. He’s also said before that “just be yourself” is the worst advice you can possibly give a “rookie”.
Ummm, actually he’s lying to you. The REAL reason he hates lifestyle coaching is because it puts him out of business. If guys improve themselves(physically and lifestyle wise) there would be no need to learn dorky lines or complicated routines.
Although I am very comfortable and confident with myself today, I wasn’t always this way. Back when I was inexperienced with women I dove right into “game”. Even though I was taking care of myself physically, I didn’t know if my “real self” would be enough.
Back then, I thought I always had to be “on”.
My personality would be, “Hey girls, what’s up? Who’s having a good time tonight? I know I sure am. Then again, when am I not? I’m always super cool. I never say anything lame.”
In fact, I can still vividly remember one particular night out at the bar.
I hopped on to one of the bigger dating sites and memorized some of the “****y funny” lines before heading out.
Anyone who’s tried some “canned lines” before knows that women tend to react quite unfavorably to them,
“You’re weird”
“Pffft” with the talk to the hand look.
Back then I was VERY clueless. I actually thought I came in on the “wrong angle”, or missed a word or two in the “opener”. My mind was very foggy.
So the moral of the story gents?
Don’t worry about leaking your “normal non-game self”. In fact, let it pour. Guys that work on the essentials have lots to be proud of. And as they should. You’ve become/are becoming the kind of man women WANT to meet.
As for your “****y funny game self”? Lock up that rotten personality and NEVER leak it again! EVER!
http://simpleguyskills.com/best-personality-women/
“What personality is most attractive to women?
Well, it depends on who you ask.
Among the pickup community (aka the “false prophets”), you’ll most certainly hear a “****y funny” personality is your best bet.
In fact, listen to what this pickup artist/manosphere douchebag had to say:
“The biggest game mistake you can make is to relax the initial game that hooked the girl. I’m not a natural seducer, so when I leak out my normal non-game self to girls I’ve been having sex with, I soon experience various bouts of flaking and emotional outbursts that suggest her attraction for me is waffling”
That’s interesting!
Could one not argue that his “normal non-game self”(aka his REAL PERSONALITY) is not that attractive in general?
He continues,
“This leaves men who aren’t naturals at game with two options. The first is to apply game as long as it takes to get a couple doses of sex and then ease more into his natural character. This allows him to more or less “be himself,” but it runs the risk that the girl will get bored of his natural self and move on. The second option is to wear the game mask for as long as he’s with the girl to keep extracting sexual rewards from her. It’s clear that the second option is most economical so that men do not keep losing their sources of sex.”
What this means is that you must find a functional game that you don’t mind always applying, and it has to be effective enough to get you the sex you want. So while I don’t enjoy being an ******* to women, I don’t mind applying other techniques that attract them: being overly ****y and funny. I can be ****y and funny until the cows come home without any inner conflict, and thankfully this is enough for me to receive and maintain sexual relationships. If it wasn’t, however, I’d have to find another strategy that I could always use when in the presence of women. “
If you think this is good advice, smash your head against the wall as many times as it takes to realize that this is BEYOND MORONIC!
Now this particular pickup artist/manospherian/scum of the earth /whatever you want to call him, is nowhere near the first choice physically speaking for the majority of women. I truly believe he could make some changes to his appearance and become more physically attractive though.
As I’ve already said, looks matter a lot. This is especially true when meeting women through cold approach as this “guru” does. (Or at least attempts to
)So not only is he physically unattractive to women, he makes himself even less appealing by running ****y, jackass, jock game.
Most manospherians like to blame their struggles with American women on feminism, westernization, and as a result become incredibly misogynistic. Is it just me, or could it be that women just aren’t attracted to them?
There’s even a subculture of maospherians that pridefully boast about playing “masculine” video games. (I wish I was kidding)
Makes sense. Most manospherians look very much like “gamers”. Most of them look like they just put down the video game controller long enough to write their latest obnoxious blog post:
“10 reasons why I’m more alpha than you”
“5 reasons why my life is awesome and yours sucks”
Or my favorite,
“How to conquer depression forever” (Wow dude! You’re amazing! You can seriously cure someone’s clinical depression with your blog post?)
Don’t worry manospherians, there will be tons of “men only gamer nights”
(A typical Saturday night for the manosphere gang)
Anyhow, excuse me for getting sidetracked. Manosphere douches tend to bring out the worst in me.
So back to the question, “What personality is most attractive to women?”
YOUR PERSONALITY IS MOST ATTRACTIVE!
As I keep saying, the essentials are key.
When you work on the physical aspects of the essentials (physique, style and grooming), you become much more visually appealing to women.
Having hobbies/a passion is is also VERY important though.
I’m quite sure every guy has a special talent/hobby.
Perhaps you’re a good artist? Perhaps you’re good at a particular sport? Perhaps you enjoy writing?
For example, let’s say you’re a talented musician. You love playing guitar. You’re in a band and make a little cash on the side. You’re constantly trying to improve your craft and very much enjoy writing new pieces and jamming with the band.
You can speak about music with great passion and enthusiasm. This will be VERY attractive to women.
When you work on your financial situation, your personality also greatly improves. For example, guys with a little cash tucked away tend to feel more at ease. They’re not constantly stressed out and worrying about money. Guys with a little spare cash are often happier in general because of the freedom money provides. Also, if you weren’t born into money, some spare cash tends to be sign of a great life accomplishment. You completed a rigorous education program, you got that promotion at work, or you busted your ass with some type of business that is now thriving. I truly believe every guy should be trying to improve their financial situation.
When you work on your physique, improve your style, improve your grooming, have some hobbies/passions, and work on your financial situation, your confidence will be through the roof. Confidence is a huge part of the essentials.
Confidence is also about the only thing the pickup ****s get right.
In fact, it’s by the far the most attractive personality trait to women.
While confidence is very attractive, arrogance and ****iness is NOT!
For example, I am quite sure of myself. However, I furthest thing from some arrogant jekroff in constant need of reassurance.
I used to work as an orderly at one point. Anyhow, one of the other orderly’s is an amazing golfer. He regularly shoots rounds under par. I believe he even shot a round of 63 on a par 72 course before. He does not go around boasting about this at all. In fact, he rarely mention golf unless you do. Why does he need to brag? He knows he’s good.
Working on the essentials can really ramp up your personality.
Obviously different guys will have different default personalities even with a lot of confidence. Some guys are more outgoing, some are more quiet, some laid back.
Let me reveal my personality a bit,
I tend to be a very laid back guy. I just go with the flow and don’t get too affected by life’s ups and downs.
Last summer I was going to the beach a lot with this one particular girl. We had tons of fun together. She often googled beaches close by and suggested the one we went to most days. I didn’t mind. I was up for whatever. We would hit the odd beach from time to time that was not quite as advertised. We still had loads of fun regardless.
I’m also a nice guy and tend to smile a lot.(Oh no, I just set myself up for tons of ridicule by the manosphere crowd for being so “beta”
) Yes, you read that right. I try and help others out if I can. I also tend to smile a lot too. The way I see it, each day you can wake up with good health, it’s a great day and good enough reason for me to smile.I have a witty, dry, sarcastic sense of humor. Women seem to find my sarcasm amusing. There’s nothing wrong with being funny. Women like a good sense of humor. Just don’t think you need to be a comedian and turn into a real clown like some pickup artist. Women will be laughing for all the wrong reasons.
Although I am very nice and easy going, I also have a backbone. I don’t tolerate bad behavior WHATSOEVER! Guys will find when they can meet the types of women they’re attracted to consistently, the ones who treat them poorly, regardless of how attractive they are will get the walking papers REAL QUICK!
So yeah, my real personality is VERY attractive to women. I’m just “being me” I take care of myself physically and work on my lifestyle. I feel no need to pretend to be something I’m not. Women seem to like me just how I am.
One “daygamer”/actress hirer is quoted saying that he hates self-development and life coaching. He says it’s just an excuse not to cold approach. He’s also said before that “just be yourself” is the worst advice you can possibly give a “rookie”.
Ummm, actually he’s lying to you. The REAL reason he hates lifestyle coaching is because it puts him out of business. If guys improve themselves(physically and lifestyle wise) there would be no need to learn dorky lines or complicated routines.
Although I am very comfortable and confident with myself today, I wasn’t always this way. Back when I was inexperienced with women I dove right into “game”. Even though I was taking care of myself physically, I didn’t know if my “real self” would be enough.
Back then, I thought I always had to be “on”.
My personality would be, “Hey girls, what’s up? Who’s having a good time tonight? I know I sure am. Then again, when am I not? I’m always super cool. I never say anything lame.”
In fact, I can still vividly remember one particular night out at the bar.
I hopped on to one of the bigger dating sites and memorized some of the “****y funny” lines before heading out.
Anyone who’s tried some “canned lines” before knows that women tend to react quite unfavorably to them,
“You’re weird”
“Pffft” with the talk to the hand look.
Back then I was VERY clueless. I actually thought I came in on the “wrong angle”, or missed a word or two in the “opener”. My mind was very foggy.
So the moral of the story gents?
Don’t worry about leaking your “normal non-game self”. In fact, let it pour. Guys that work on the essentials have lots to be proud of. And as they should. You’ve become/are becoming the kind of man women WANT to meet.
As for your “****y funny game self”? Lock up that rotten personality and NEVER leak it again! EVER!
http://simpleguyskills.com/best-personality-women/
