I have a long term relationship with this girl. She is confusing the hell out of me. Short term relationship, if a does this, I would next her like nothing. When I made a committment on a ltr, I do all I can to make it work.
I always play it cool, DJ style, by not giving her too much attention and only reward her when she does something good. I only call her to say good night, and if she has a test coming up for college, I would call to say good luck. She does most of the calling. She says she misses me and everything. I use it only sparingly.
What I don't know is why she mentions to a mutual friend that she needs her personal space all of a sudden. She even go as far as mention that if she broke up with me, our friend will still consider her a friend. He hooked us up.
Her actions say one thing and her words say another. Also, she has PMS this week. Have you guys experience this. Is it the PMS talking or her true feelings? The mutual friend is my mentor. I know for a fact that he has my back from day one.
Short term relationships, I have no problem with, but ltr is something that is new to me. I am learning a lot. Please help me out guys.
I always play it cool, DJ style, by not giving her too much attention and only reward her when she does something good. I only call her to say good night, and if she has a test coming up for college, I would call to say good luck. She does most of the calling. She says she misses me and everything. I use it only sparingly.
What I don't know is why she mentions to a mutual friend that she needs her personal space all of a sudden. She even go as far as mention that if she broke up with me, our friend will still consider her a friend. He hooked us up.
Her actions say one thing and her words say another. Also, she has PMS this week. Have you guys experience this. Is it the PMS talking or her true feelings? The mutual friend is my mentor. I know for a fact that he has my back from day one.
Short term relationships, I have no problem with, but ltr is something that is new to me. I am learning a lot. Please help me out guys.