"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nroug7

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I was hitting on this girl and she gave me the "I can see us as brother and sister" speech after one day
Then started roleplaying as if she were my father.
I have no clue what to do or what's going on here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You have ZERO chance of getting poon here.

dont think. Dont bother to try and analyze(thats what girls do)

just NEXT!!
 

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Purefilth said:
You have ZERO chance of getting poon here.

dont think. Dont bother to try and analyze(thats what girls do)

just NEXT!!
Yep. That's what I'm doing, if I was interested I would of wrote long paragraphs.
o_O
I'm just rather shocked, my success ratio has been really strong for a while now.
It's a bit unsettling to get thrown off game like that.
 

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I do not agree that the case was lost after she gave that brother/sister line.


When a woman puts up last minute resistance, guys often become insecure and don't have the balls to push through. Her resistance feels like REJECTION. But if you're a badass, you don't let it faze you and just confidently push on until she gives you what you want. Often times, she will fvck you after all, because you showed her that your confident, you just totally disregard her "rejection", you just "assume the sale" despite the customers' resistance. You're driving a big SUV and her "resistance" is just a fly on your windscreen, you don't even notice it.

Same goes for when a girl says she has a boyfriend. Many guys feel like they got rejected when eshe says that, and then they walk away with their tail between their legs. But other guys just keep their cool, tell her they don't care about the boyfriend, then just continue gaming her and seal the deal after all. The moment she gives the boyfriend line, you just briefly adress it and disregard it, then you talk on about other stuff and dominate the conversation. You keep seducing her, keep asking her questions, keep telling her little stories and create a sexy mood and one minute later she herself won't even remember that she gave you the boyfriend line.



I suspect you gave up when she threw you the brother/sister line and she could probably see that you were disappointed. You should've tried some more and not give up so easily. You could've said something like:

Her: "I can see us as brother and sister"

You: "That's okay, I have no problems with incest."

She tries to put the two of you in a non sexual frame with her line. But you don't allow that, YOU are in control and you just put the two of you back into a sexual frame with your reply. Just keep reinforcing a sexual frame and don't give her any chance to reverse it.

Sure, she might reject you despite this, after all. But you should at least try, man. You gave up way too soon, women often give you what you want if you just show her you're confident and keep "assuming the sale".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Die Hard said:
I do not agree that the case was lost after she gave that brother/sister line.


When a woman puts up last minute resistance, guys often become insecure and don't have the balls to push through. Her resistance feels like REJECTION. But if you're a badass, you don't let it faze you and just confidently push on until she gives you what you want. Often times, she will fvck you after all, because you showed her that your confident, you just totally disregard her "rejection", you just "assume the sale" despite the customers' resistance. You're driving a big SUV and her "resistance" is just a fly on your windscreen, you don't even notice it.

Same goes for when a girl says she has a boyfriend. Many guys feel like they got rejected when eshe says that, and then they walk away with their tail between their legs. But other guys just keep their cool, tell her they don't care about the boyfriend, then just continue gaming her and seal the deal after all. The moment she gives the boyfriend line, you just briefly adress it and disregard it, then you talk on about other stuff and dominate the conversation. You keep seducing her, keep asking her questions, keep telling her little stories and create a sexy mood and one minute later she herself won't even remember that she gave you the boyfriend line.



I suspect you gave up when she threw you the brother/sister line and she could probably see that you were disappointed. You should've tried some more and not give up so easily. You could've said something like:

Her: "I can see us as brother and sister"

You: "That's okay, I have no problems with incest."

She tries to put the two of you in a non sexual frame with her line. But you don't allow that, YOU are in control and you just put the two of you back into a sexual frame with your reply. Just keep reinforcing a sexual frame and don't give her any chance to reverse it.

Sure, she might reject you despite this, after all. But you should at least try, man. You gave up way too soon, women often give you what you want if you just show her you're confident and keep "assuming the sale".
Oh, I know, I've thrown down the boyfriend thing on many occasions.
I do make small pushes here and there since I have her contact details, but only when I have nothing better to do.
She's incredibly attractive, but I already have so many possibilities when it comes to women anyways, so it doesn't even bother me.
 
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