"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I started a thread about how much older women hate men who date younger women, and sazc threatens me with violence, and says this OP wasn't a valid contribution to the forum.

I rest my case.
Typical neil, twisting everything to suit his narrative. You realize that only adds to this image you have of being handicapped, right?
lol, I didn't threaten you with violence. what I actually said was that you are a COWARD because you purposefully instigate with inflammatory posts knowing that you are safe behind your computer.

In the spirit of not giving you the attention you crave and seek, I will be signing off this interaction as of now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I used a password generator and locked myself out from da dynamically account. And the email and number I used back in 2003, I do not remember. The mods are contacting IT to see if they can do anything. I can do whatever I want on this site. You can't expose me for having a dupe.
I could care less if you have a second account, no issues there. I just didn't know who was posting, attempting to instigate on your behalf.
 

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I could care less if you have a second account, no issues there. I just didn't know who was posting, attempting to instigate on your behalf.

Remember when you said "Both me and you know you are a fraud?!?!?"

I have infinite female validation.


These are hot chicks hitting on me!

The fraudster!! Hahahahahahahahha.... If you hate me, my validation is even more depressing than you think it is. Because it goes on forever.









 

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@dynamically Both you and I do know that you are lying about the interaction you and I had. I'm not sure why you continue to resurrect the topic.

This time it would appear that you want to do little bragging on the board so you are, once again, fabricating what I actually did say (never said you were a fraud with females) so that you can post pictures of your OLD interaction.

I'm pretty tired of the subject myself. You dont need to use me as a reason or excuse to post OLD interaction and pics. Just start your own thread and post away.

In closing.....
Remember guys, small minds talk about other people, big minds talk about ideas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This thread is just sad
 

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I've been asked that question by various members about 5 times now, and I have answered in detail each time. No malice intended but I am officially done qualifying myself to anyone on these boards. If you really want to know why I am here, check out my posting history, and what I tend to say to members when I post. It becomes abundantly clear 'why' I am here when you read what I tend to post.
Not everyone has that kind of time @sazc. I just asked a simple question in hopes of getting a simple answer. The time it took you to write your temperamental reply you could of just answered the question. Why don't you just make it part of your profile so no one has you ask you?

I'm not going to read you entire posting history lol. Btw if you were to ask me the same question I could answer in one sentence. What is so complex about your motives here that someone needs to read your entire posting history? LOL.
 

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Not everyone has that kind of time @sazc. I just asked a simple question in hopes of getting a simple answer. The time it took you to write your temperamental reply you could of just answered the question. Why don't you just make it part of your profile so no one has you ask you?

I'm not going to read you entire posting history lol. Btw if you were to ask me the same question I could answer in one sentence. What is so complex about your motives here that someone needs to read your entire posting history? LOL.
Why I post and read here is, actually, multi dimensional. For that reason, I dont like to be curt in a reply about it, I like to be thoughtful.

Honestly, I didnt expect you to read my entire posting history, lol. My point is that, if you see me post in other threads, I think you will see that I try to be helpful and honest, and you will get a sense of why I am here, why I am posting.
 

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Wow. Do you realize how mixed America is? White woman, black father is COMMON. The new "issue" is this whole Transgender/2 moms or 2 dads thing. You act like it is 1990.
The topic is not interracial couple or mixed kids, I have no problem with any of them, actually I dont give a fvck would be a better line.
We are talking here about a white woman with a fully white kid and a black man at home, personally I have no problem with that again...but its not me the kid at school.
Im sure u have no problem with a kid grown up from two transgenders yet that kid doesnt actually think the same deep down.
I'm sure for you a kid who see someone completly alien to him pretending to be his father and banging his mother is no big deal or maybe its an "enrichment"?
Thats what was I referring too in my line about the new mamas bf to be as close as possible as the father not only in terms of race (the same of the kid) but also in terms of social class, behaviour and so on.
Listen I made my point clear, no time to waste after millennial posers challenging me to a modern vision contest.

My consideration would be exactly the same if a black kid with a black mother was to have a white dude at home as new father and banging his mother.
 

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This has dissolved to:

"My best friend's cheating wife left him and their child to run off with a black man, and now the court forces him to pay her $3000 a month."

"Racist!"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why I post and read here is, actually, multi dimensional. For that reason, I dont like to be curt in a reply about it, I like to be thoughtful.

Honestly, I didnt expect you to read my entire posting history, lol. My point is that, if you see me post in other threads, I think you will see that I try to be helpful and honest, and you will get a sense of why I am here, why I am posting.
Very indirect answer. So basically you are not going to tell us why you are here. You want us to "guess" based on your posts lol.

Fair enough.
 

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She's here to try to hold men like us back.
Whenever you ask a question and get a wish-washy response.. it usually means the person is full of sh*t.

Indirect communication = fraudulent communication.
 

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Whenever you ask a question and get a wish-washy response.. it usually means the person is full of sh*t.

Indirect communication = fraudulent communication.
How was I not direct when I said "I have stopped qualifying myself to members"?
It's not my problem if you dont like that answer, it's yours.

How about this answer - It's an internet forum and I am free to post here, THAT is why I am posting. Dont like that one? Too bad for you.

Truth is I owe you nothing. You pretty much grab my posts and are a d1ck to me. What about that invites me to share anything with you?

It's amazing how many guys here are consistent drama queens!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How was I not direct when I said "I have stopped qualifying myself to members"?
It's not my problem if you dont like that answer, it's yours.

How about this answer - It's an internet forum and I am free to post here, THAT is why I am posting. Dont like that one? Too bad for you.

Truth is I owe you nothing. You pretty much grab my posts and are a d1ck to me. What about that invites me to share anything with you?

It's amazing how many guys here are consistent drama queens!
I know, I know.. getting sh*t tested isn't fun. Let me tell you...
 

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So much drama.. I cant imagine réal life...

Women don't like guys going for younger girls.. it's a fact but its the power of the mâle. The women just has to keep herself physically interesting but also emotional and intellectually challenging.

About the kid mix:

Well let see:

Jeff Bezos, Amazon CEO : White American Mother, Cuban father (not biological whos last name is bezos)
His biological father that hé never met: danish

Barrack Obama: White American Mother, Indonesian Brown father (not biological)
Biological father: Kenyan Black (i believe they never meet but Obama could go to harvard due to the traditional family link.. if your parents when there... you invited too)

Steve Jobs: white American Mother, white American father (not biological)
Biological: Syrian Arabic (never met)

Kids don't care about the skin color. Cause their own skin will be a mix (Obama is not black, he's a mulato... but americans consider anyone with a black parent:black.. even if he's mix)

They care about what they see around them, if it will relate to their own family unit. So if you the only "mix" kid... Yep, the kid might find it "odds"... like if he's the only pure "white" kid in a mixed parents neighborhood.

Social norms will also after the kids... alot of Asian kids i know had issues because their parents family didnt accept he was not "pure" asian.

Same with some african group, arab, indian.
 

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Oh, God, it's f*cking Angelina Jolie here. It's the people who whine about race who are the real racists. I used the word black to describe reality using language. Spare me your lecture about your dream of having sex with white women even though you're not white.
 

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Racism is about intent. If you are naturally attracted to a particular colour, creed or type then that's just you and there's nothing wrong with it. I naturally gravitate towards Thai and Japanese because not only do I speak the languages but I understand them culturally.

In Thailand especially, it's common for local guys to give me the stink eye because thing I'm doing a better job with their women than they would. And if they hate me because I'm a foreigner then yes obviously that's racism.

Now, if your intent is to sleep with a woman from a race that you feel is inferior because you want to "slum it" or get off on f****** her to stick it to the men of that race, then yeah that's born out of hatred rather than attraction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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