"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What occupation would a chick have that you might see as a red flag?

Naughty Ninja

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What occupation that a chick might have that you might see as a possible red flag? Besides strippers, prostitutes and hopefully a nun. Social worker? Nurse? Teacher? Massuse? Social worker I'd say is an occupation for chicks who are trying to hide from their problems by helping others. I know a few teachers who are whacked out and sluts. Nurse?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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* Psychologist and social worker would be up the top without a doubt.

* Nurse is touch and go, that entire profession now comes under the dictionary definition of c@ck carouseling, used to be a noble profession for a woman now it's just a hot bed of hypergamy and who's doing who.

* Lecturers.

* Defence force = (anything in a predominantly male environment basically).

There are quite a few more but that's a start.

edit: I just actually read your post and saw you had social worker as well hah.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Psychologist and social worker would be up the top without a doubt, nurse is touch and go, that entire profession has stocks in carousel companies, lecturers .

edit: I just actually read your post and saw you had social worker as well hah.
My ex was a social worker. She had just as much issues if not more than her "clients". I got the hell out of that relationship after a year and went full blown no contact not responding to anything she tried to get back with me. I've heard nurses are loons too. I know a few personally and every one was a nut. Some occupations i think draw more cuckoo birds than others.
 

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Come to think of it it's probably fair to say all the jobs women traditionally did not enter into before the femcunts doubled the burden of the workforce.

On a side note I have alot more respect for strippers and hors than some b!tch in a liberal arts/sociology type filler job created specifically to put women into the workforce, at least the strippers job is not totally worthless and semi-productive.
 

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Any job which grants her power, whetever is a uniform or teaching, actually teachers are even worse since they on purposely chose subjects to their dominance which cannot rebel.

While a cop can have a criminal oppose to him, rarely a 10yrs old kids would.

Agree as a general rule to say that any job women were not traditionally doing before feminism,yet I dont understand why many of you are talking about nurses, any reason in particular?

So in the end any job which put them in a position of "superiority" or "I know best" attitude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bartenders, especially bartenders at strip clubs. They get hit on more often than the strippers because the guys think they're a level of class above the strippers. They're not.

I've never met a psychologist who wasn't batsh!t crazy.
 

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no job or many short term jobs where they left because it was someone else"s fault.....not
 

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Actually, the majority of nurses that work at the local hospital are white trash. Sluts in the club no joke. Back when I wore blue those are the ones I was told to avoid, ironically. Across the street from me lives a single mother of 2 who is a nurse. Easy pickings? maybe.
 

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I will only speak to the ones I've had personal experiences with ...

Academics, especially the arts (Literature for instance) - fanatics.
Investment bankers - sluts for the next deal.
Doctors - I've dated 4 of them, they don't think like us 'lil humans do (easy to game though).
Veterinarians - they all have dogs, they all watch when their dog has a movement ... 'nuff said!

Interesting topic.

SH
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Physical Therapist- women in this profession are constantly around guys rubbing their bodies and making conversation. They've got every phone number of every guy they ever worked on. They text half of these guys on a regular basis. With women's notorious lack of will power, this situation is a recipe for disaster. Married or not! ;-) So if you want a girl who is faithful, I'd stear clear of girls in this profession if you want something long term.

Lawyers- like to argue, think they are always right, and conservative. Its just a bunch of women trying to survive in a man's world. They like power and will be controlling.

Upper level corporate managers- more concerned about their career. Work comes first. Lack compassion and other womanly traits that we desire. More man like.

Models-used to getting everything with their looks. Most things in life came easy because of their looks and as a result, they lack a lot of relationship skills. And deep down everyone of them struggles with self esteem. You always have to be gaming these *****es. It never stops.

Strippers-just don't see how they are any worse than women who don't take their clothes off for money. If you go into it knowing what you are getting and not expecting long term success, then they are a lot of fun, sexy, adventurous, and free spirited. They don't have any more or less issues than regular girls.

Business/Marketing-so far I've been most pleased with girls in this profession. They have some brains and rationalize with logic better than most others!


Pharmaceutical Sales- flirtatious, socializers, attractive, always friends with a bunch of guys, know all the bartenders and wait stuff by name. If you aren't secure then stay away from these types.

Women who change jobs frequently- just a damn mess, pump and dump is all they are good for. A ***** might be a better deal. These are at the bottom of the pile.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
* Psychologist and social worker would be up the top without a doubt.
I have heard this before, especially psychologist, psychiatrist or counselor. Why is this, specifically?
 

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Findog - read a lot of BPD sites and it seems people with issues cluster'B etc... seem to be drawn to these professions as they would rather deal with other peoples issues than their own - projection. remember they are in denial, they don't have a problem you do and they are happy to help you out with yours....
 

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Dear All,
Oh dear I am odd Man out again.....Yes to all the controlling professions...Cops,teachers,lawyers....but I find Psychologists really nice interesting people,nurses too,the latter are generally loose but mean well...In a profession like that,who begrudges them a bit of stick?
 

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Findog said:
I have heard this before, especially psychologist, psychiatrist or counselor. Why is this, specifically?
I've dated one. My opinion (based on a sample of 1) is that they typically go into this field in an effort to battle their many personal demons.
I don't think they ever succeed in this as their thinking changes as they focus on helping others and move away from their own needs (the ultimate distraction!).

They think they know what you're thinking and react accordingly to their mostly inaccurate beliefs.

Pain in the a55 people!

EDIT: answered above, distracted before I hit the post button!

SH
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aside from the obvious ones, I recently encountered a woman who I suspect is probably nuts and she's an engineer.

I have several clients who are cosmetic/plastic surgeons, and while highly intelligent/gifted, are also quite nuts. I would never date one seriously.

Helping professions aren't necessarily a red flag, but I am more alert around people who are psychologists, hair/fashion stylists, teachers and social workers for example.

My personal take on why helping professions might be a potential red flag is that if crazy women take on the role of "helper" then it allows them to sidestep their own personal challenges (I'm the counselor, how can I possibly be the one with the issues?). It's ego comfort for them to have someone depending on them (narcissists need to be needed). It's easier to feel better about their shortcomings/insecurities when they've got others coming to them for help. Of course this isn't meant to be a general statement, but I think that's the underlying gist of why you tend to find crazy in helping professions.
 

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Any job

Women are not meant to work except in household matters and child rearing.

When women collect money outside the home their loyalties shift away from the home to the ones giving the money...women are at their core eternal prostitutes who have no internal moral locus...thus they are only fit to be owned.
 

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Burroughs said:
Any job

Women are not meant to work except in household matters and child rearing.

When women collect money outside the home their loyalties shift away from the home to the ones giving the money...women are at their core eternal prostitutes who have no internal moral locus...thus they are only fit to be owned.
:crackup: This was my initial thought too. Most women I know who have to work have utter contempt for men "putting them there in the first place" by "being asleep at the wheel". While passively accepting it and even using it to bolster their egos "I'm a financially successful and independent woman", deep down they really loathe men for letting them enter the workforce to begin with though our "inaction" or rather through their "liberation".

I went to lunch with my family last week to celebrate my mother's 60th. She runs a department comprised of 100% women. They all piss and moan at lunch about how useless their husbands are, how they sit around, don't help with the kids, come home and expect dinner, how they're all exhausted from carrying their men, etc etc.
 

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Burroughs.....you are definitely on the far end of the spectrum and that statement is pretty out there, however there is some truth to what you said. I respect you for going balls out. Women in the workforce have created so many problems and it has led to the degradation of the family unit.

"women are at their core eternal prostitutes"......pretty difficult to dispute. There's not much difference between a woman who wants cash in exchange for her body vs. one who wants material things. Only the form of currency is different.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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