"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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trans_am17

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Me and my friend's ex have been talking a lot on myspace(yeah I know please don't bash) a lot lately. They just broke up a few days ago. I've been c & f with her and our convos are great. She definitely showed sins of interest. Well we were talking about her ex who happens to have a mustang, and I sent her a message saying" you'd look better in a Trans Am anyways". (I have a T/A as opposed to her ex's stang) She sent me back"whats that supposed to mean" I pussied out and said"hell if I know". What should I do or say now. I'm pretty sure shes interested shes said we'd talk whether i liked it or not. but I think she knows that I like her and doesn't know how to respond.She hasn't sent me anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Stop...stop macking your friends ex. Bros before hos, and in this case this ho used to be his...SO HANDS OFF!
 

AC/DC

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You should have told her that she looks better in your car.

If she asks what that means, be like "my car make anyone look nicer lol"
 
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