Ok guys and girls I'm in a bit situation with this HB9. I met her at work about 2 months ago, she worked the summer at the same place as I did. Got her number and went on 1st date on the same day i spoke with her for the first time. Kiss closed her on the first date also.
Everything went well and she was all over me after that. We started talking in FB alot, i know HUGE mistake, and at some point she started really opening to me saying stuff i believe she didn't tell anyone else. She almost always initiated the convo and i was answering her like I was her emotional tampoo.
At first i really wasn't that interested in her because some issues. Our parents are friends with each others and his big brother was one of my best friends when i was teen. But my feelings have changed in the past few weeks when i realised that those things aren't actually such big issues.
We have seen maybe 5 times outside the work. I played it cool everytime, way too cool actually. She has been at my place 3 times and nothing happened not even a kiss after the first date even thought she was giving me alot IOI's and hints that she wants to have sex with me. Also few bootycalls when she has been drinking etc.
Last time i saw her was 12 days ago. She was in another city for school stuff. While being there she texted me a lot saying things that she hates the city where she is at and missed her home city and it's people and was craving to see me after she comes home. When i saw her last time she picked me up first and called her mom that she wants to take her to a ride because she wanted to introduce me to her mother. She also has told me that she has talked with her mom several times about me. After we dropped her mother she wanted to come to my place but i didn't escalate, another HUGE mistake, and she left pretty angry.
Two days after that i made maybe the biggest mistake. I was alone at my home recovering from hangover when i texted her that i have been thinking her and I've started to like her. She panicked, even said that on next text. She also said she thought i like her but was trying to hide the fact. Said she loves and cares me but can only give me friendship. She also said that the feeling is or was mutual ( due to our native language and the way she wrote it, I can't be sure which one she meant). And so i got friendzoned
After that i started freeze-out. She initiated convo after 2nd, 4th and 7th day of freezeout. I didn't response to everything she texted and when i did my answers were short and cold ones. At 6th day of freeze-out she had office party where we had mutual friends and i heard she talked a lot about me there. Also heard that she was pissed because I've been drinking twice during the freezeout ( she knows I'm a player) and even got laid on the once. Of course didn't tell that to her but I think she knows that when i went out I was atleast trying to get laid. After that she started updating her Facebook with awesome pictures and even wrote yesterday a status that she is on date but didn't write with whom. I suspect that it wasn't a romantic date but rather a date with girlfriend or friendzoned guy but of course i can't know it for sure.
I ended NC today because it's her birthday and send private FB message and she responsed with hearts but the convo died after that.
So what should i do now if I still want her? How long I should wait before I ask her out? Should i ask her on a date or meet me as a friend. I know she atleast would accept the invitation if I asked her out as a friend. My goal in to bang her and maybe have a relationship with her not to be her friend.
Thx in advance,
Suppo12
Everything went well and she was all over me after that. We started talking in FB alot, i know HUGE mistake, and at some point she started really opening to me saying stuff i believe she didn't tell anyone else. She almost always initiated the convo and i was answering her like I was her emotional tampoo.
At first i really wasn't that interested in her because some issues. Our parents are friends with each others and his big brother was one of my best friends when i was teen. But my feelings have changed in the past few weeks when i realised that those things aren't actually such big issues.
We have seen maybe 5 times outside the work. I played it cool everytime, way too cool actually. She has been at my place 3 times and nothing happened not even a kiss after the first date even thought she was giving me alot IOI's and hints that she wants to have sex with me. Also few bootycalls when she has been drinking etc.
Last time i saw her was 12 days ago. She was in another city for school stuff. While being there she texted me a lot saying things that she hates the city where she is at and missed her home city and it's people and was craving to see me after she comes home. When i saw her last time she picked me up first and called her mom that she wants to take her to a ride because she wanted to introduce me to her mother. She also has told me that she has talked with her mom several times about me. After we dropped her mother she wanted to come to my place but i didn't escalate, another HUGE mistake, and she left pretty angry.
Two days after that i made maybe the biggest mistake. I was alone at my home recovering from hangover when i texted her that i have been thinking her and I've started to like her. She panicked, even said that on next text. She also said she thought i like her but was trying to hide the fact. Said she loves and cares me but can only give me friendship. She also said that the feeling is or was mutual ( due to our native language and the way she wrote it, I can't be sure which one she meant). And so i got friendzoned
After that i started freeze-out. She initiated convo after 2nd, 4th and 7th day of freezeout. I didn't response to everything she texted and when i did my answers were short and cold ones. At 6th day of freeze-out she had office party where we had mutual friends and i heard she talked a lot about me there. Also heard that she was pissed because I've been drinking twice during the freezeout ( she knows I'm a player) and even got laid on the once. Of course didn't tell that to her but I think she knows that when i went out I was atleast trying to get laid. After that she started updating her Facebook with awesome pictures and even wrote yesterday a status that she is on date but didn't write with whom. I suspect that it wasn't a romantic date but rather a date with girlfriend or friendzoned guy but of course i can't know it for sure.
I ended NC today because it's her birthday and send private FB message and she responsed with hearts but the convo died after that.
So what should i do now if I still want her? How long I should wait before I ask her out? Should i ask her on a date or meet me as a friend. I know she atleast would accept the invitation if I asked her out as a friend. My goal in to bang her and maybe have a relationship with her not to be her friend.
Thx in advance,
Suppo12
