"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhAt NoW..NeXt?

well i asked this one girl im focused on for now something thats low risk : her email

lately i gave her some eye contact and she responded back positively and stuck out her breasts and stuff

After class i decided to ask for this "simple, innocent" thing and as we were walking she says "not now" (im in an honors class thats full of sophomores <im a freshman>)

so i say "not now ok"
I see her at the later after school, and danielle is in one of her groups and i take a look and she does a hair flip

one of her friends comes and asks , "do you like danielle" (shes annoying and smiles too much)

i just ignored this and just talked wiht my friend and i guess danielle watched in the distance

im guessing strongly shes not really interested, but wants the attention (despite she's "shy")

im freshman too so who knows
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BLUEox117

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what are u trying to next exactly? u didnt even get anywhere.
youz a hoe,
i said that youz a hoe.
 

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firstly, no girl can EVER smile to much, unless its cause she wants you and she's really clingy. a girls smile is a beautiful thing

secondly, all her body language suggests interest. just hang out with her, be funny, and see where it leads. DON'T HESITATE!

ps just a little sidenote when you wanted to ask her something and she said not now, don't say ok. say something like "this will only take a second" if she really doesn't want to talk, then let it go. but no one should be able to just brush you aside like that. they should respect you and be happy that you are giving them attention at all.
 

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defiancy

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damn double postings
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
firstly, no girl can EVER smile to much, unless its cause she wants you and she's really clingy. a girls smile is a beautiful thing .

you know that im talking about her friend right ..who asked me if i liked her


great math class is goign to be so much FUN tomorrow..bah

so should i still flirt or act any different, im probably going to act the same
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
what are u trying to next exactly? u didnt even get anywhere.
youz a hoe,
i said that youz a hoe.
LMAO


A girl can smile too much, the same goes for a guy. Women are beautiful and so are men, but that doesn't mean excessive traits are desirable.

2 the original poster, confront her, do something....don't let it fade away without gettin a sure answer, because if you keep her in the abck of your head, it mite lead to oneitis or wondering "what if"
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
what are u trying to next exactly? u didnt even get anywhere.
youz a hoe,
i said that youz a hoe.
lmao, I concur. It seems like you didn't get anywhere. All you need is some time with this girl. Smiling or not doesnt mean anything
 

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everyone knows that the girl i gave EC to isn't the one who smiled right?

it was her friend when she was asking about the interest
 

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yes, i know that

all i was saying is that as far as im concerned, no one can EVER smile too much.

happy happy happy

(i need to lay off the pot lol ;) )
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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