This is my first post, it's a little long, but my question needs reference to prior events.
I went out with this chick, the gal of my dreams, on a first date, , 2 sundays ago, to a pub next to my place (she started flaking at first, asking to change it to a pub next to her place, but i downright refused, acted cool and casual, and told her where going where we originally planned, and that i'll take her home later).
She was impressed by that and showed up just in time (she's usually late, so showing up on time is a good sign.) We arrived at the pub and from there on, i played the game to PERFECTION. I felt grreat, we taalked all night about her (her loves, about love, about how she feels when she's in love, etc...) with no small talk and the flow was perfect.
I then took her home, holding her hand, our final conversation being about how we like our sex to be, then she told me we arrived, i kissed her on the cheek (she wasn't ready for lips) and when she told me to mis-call her when i get home (we took cabs), i laughed and told her that "Yeah, right. I'm a big boy who could handle himself just fine." and then i went home.
I was thrilled it all went so great, but as Mr Murphy is so used to saying "what can go wrong, will go wrong".
i call her saturday of the same week. She had a graduation party friday, but i didn't go, i didn't even call to say whther or not i was coming, although i did make it clear on our date that i may not be coming. So, i call her saturday on another phone number (my phone wasn't with me). She didn't answer. I msg her to call me as soon as she recieves this and she still didn't answer. Sunday arrives and that's when i fvck up. I call her twice and send her 2 msgs (yes, i know, i'm still slapping myself). She still doesn't answer. It's been a week and she still hasn't spoken to me, but i didn't call her after sunday, so i have no clue what to do next. I don't get it, the date went perfect...
Should i call her, act cool and like nothing happened if she answers, or should i tell her off? Should i email? should i not call back PERIOD? i'm lost as to what my next move should be.i demonstrated value and attraction. yet she's flaking on me. plz, give me your best advice as i think this chick is perfect for me (although she lost a few points on not calling me back). Yes, i am seeing other woman too, but this one is too good to be true and it'll be a dman shame to not see/sleep/kiss/ her. A real damn shame.
I went out with this chick, the gal of my dreams, on a first date, , 2 sundays ago, to a pub next to my place (she started flaking at first, asking to change it to a pub next to her place, but i downright refused, acted cool and casual, and told her where going where we originally planned, and that i'll take her home later).
She was impressed by that and showed up just in time (she's usually late, so showing up on time is a good sign.) We arrived at the pub and from there on, i played the game to PERFECTION. I felt grreat, we taalked all night about her (her loves, about love, about how she feels when she's in love, etc...) with no small talk and the flow was perfect.
I then took her home, holding her hand, our final conversation being about how we like our sex to be, then she told me we arrived, i kissed her on the cheek (she wasn't ready for lips) and when she told me to mis-call her when i get home (we took cabs), i laughed and told her that "Yeah, right. I'm a big boy who could handle himself just fine." and then i went home.
I was thrilled it all went so great, but as Mr Murphy is so used to saying "what can go wrong, will go wrong".
i call her saturday of the same week. She had a graduation party friday, but i didn't go, i didn't even call to say whther or not i was coming, although i did make it clear on our date that i may not be coming. So, i call her saturday on another phone number (my phone wasn't with me). She didn't answer. I msg her to call me as soon as she recieves this and she still didn't answer. Sunday arrives and that's when i fvck up. I call her twice and send her 2 msgs (yes, i know, i'm still slapping myself). She still doesn't answer. It's been a week and she still hasn't spoken to me, but i didn't call her after sunday, so i have no clue what to do next. I don't get it, the date went perfect...
Should i call her, act cool and like nothing happened if she answers, or should i tell her off? Should i email? should i not call back PERIOD? i'm lost as to what my next move should be.i demonstrated value and attraction. yet she's flaking on me. plz, give me your best advice as i think this chick is perfect for me (although she lost a few points on not calling me back). Yes, i am seeing other woman too, but this one is too good to be true and it'll be a dman shame to not see/sleep/kiss/ her. A real damn shame.