"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What Neil Strauss looked like before he became Style

thedude7

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A few months ago I saw an article on Neil Strauss and his book 'The Game'. There is a photo of what he looks like before he became a pickup artist, I was absolutely amazed that world renowned pickup artist 'Style' used to look like a derelict.

I've uploaded the pic (page2_2.jpg) and linked it on modblog for anyone that hasn't seen it before.

It definately makes you realise that anyone should be able to make positive improvements to themselves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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I don't know how to access the pic, but I've seen it before and it shows that looks do matter to some extent. He's not a great looking guy, but he looks well groomed and more modern, which makes all the difference.

Now imagine if he was to pack on a load of muscle and get ripped. He'd be unstoppable!

A lot of people confuse looking good with being genetically handsome, but making the most of what you have can make all the difference.
 

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LOL what you mean he'd be unstoppable?? He's ranked the best in the world, that gives him a tiny bit of credit dont you think?
 
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