What nationality are you and how does this affect your game?

[potato]

I would even argue that looks are MORE critical for white dudes than others because we typically don't have the exotic factor as a wildcard.

I’m of Swedish descent with blonde hair and blue eyes. Many times over I’ve had women approach me saying something about my Nordic look. In many groups I do stand out and might even be considered exotic.

Native American women, especially the half breeds, tend to find me attractive - at times overwhelmingly so. Black women also tend to be sweet towards me. Both of these groups of women complain about how bad men of their own race treat them – with the idea that white/blonde haired/blue eyed men treat women with more respect.

I also tend to get a lot of attention from white supremacist chicks. They seem to think that I am one of them. It’s weird seeing some hot cute chick and then hearing ugly garbage come out of her mouth.

 

[Ambitious Player]

I have heard similar things from Latin and Black girls as well about men of their own background but that kind of behavior turns me off. Seems like White, Asian, and Indian men are seen as good providers here in the West. I can say mostly girls of all races have been kind to me except for one particular niche of White girls. The kind who are sought after by almost all guys (blonde and beautiful or a gorgeous brunette), they tend to be stuck up and unreceptive to me.

BTW, I have heard a lot of negative **** about Asian and Indian men dating success in Canada. Can any Canadians shed some light on this? Is it because the men from those races are beta AFCs or is it completely due to skin color alone (even if the guy was amazing and alpha a white girl would not want to be seen with him because it would kill her status)?

 

[backbreaker]

The thing about it is though, you can't change it. I'ts the hand you're dealt. There is no I wanna be white surgery lol.


I for one would not be as driven or focused if I were born white, because things would be easier for me. I probably would have gotten the chicks (chick really one) I wanted easier and thus, not had the drive to become a better person.

 

[poo]

irish and french.. but many women say i look eastern european.

I dont tan a lot which is a deleterious attribute.

but the majority of women tend to like white guys, so i dont find it affects my game that much

 

[sharkbeat]

Asian here. I didn't even grow up here. It was tough at first, but after a while, I don't think about it anymore. I have had...well women of all races actually.

To game American women, you first need to be Americanized:
1. Learn to speak English, fluently. Really.
2. You need to have American accent. Some other countries' accents may sound cute to Americans, but I don't think Asian accents are cute.
3. You need to be bold, not just in approaching women, but in every single social situation. Develop a personality, and real confidence, without being a jerk or a creep.

I forgot:
4. Workout and build muscles. So you came from a third-world country with minimum food and skinny, eh? Then eat lots of Big Mac and bulk up.

 

[Ambitious Player]

I think some races like Latinos and Middle Eastern people could get surgery to look more White. For Middle Eastern people, get a rhinoplasty and wear colored contact lenses so you look more Southern European. You should not have to do that though, not at all!

As for what I have noticed, Asian and Indian guys get ****ed over hardcore by their parents. Even the ones growing up in America get parents that make them beta as ****. I bet if you had Asian kids with White parents who let them grow, play sports, and truly develop, these kids would be dating hot White girls on the regular. Plus you know Asian guys with White girls means little to no social stigma, it is very accepted.

I think it is going to take a few decades for Asian people to loosen up as parents. Once they let their kids do as they please and let them pursue their life dreams and passions, their kids will grow into being slayers and getting hot girls. As of right now, Asian and Indian guys are ****ed over by parents that just don't let them grow. Indian guys get it even worse and given the stubborn nature of the culture I doubt their parents are going to learn.

 

[potato]

The thing about it is though, you can't change it. I'ts the hand you're dealt. There is no I wanna be white surgery lol.

Ever hear of a guy named Michael Jackson. I think he had some of that I wanna be white surgery.

 

[sharkbeat]

Ever hear of a guy named Michael Jackson. I think he had some of that I wanna be white surgery.

No. Look up Vitiligo.

 

[sylvester the cat]

No. Look up Vitiligo.

yeah right. and he never had reconstructive surgery either....

 

[skinnyguy]

I think some races like Latinos and Middle Eastern people could get surgery to look more White. For Middle Eastern people, get a rhinoplasty and wear colored contact lenses so you look more Southern European. You should not have to do that though, not at all!

As for what I have noticed, Asian and Indian guys get ****ed over hardcore by their parents. Even the ones growing up in America get parents that make them beta as ****. I bet if you had Asian kids with White parents who let them grow, play sports, and truly develop, these kids would be dating hot White girls on the regular. Plus you know Asian guys with White girls means little to no social stigma, it is very accepted.

I think it is going to take a few decades for Asian people to loosen up as parents. Once they let their kids do as they please and let them pursue their life dreams and passions, their kids will grow into being slayers and getting hot girls. As of right now, Asian and Indian guys are ****ed over by parents that just don't let them grow. Indian guys get it even worse and given the stubborn nature of the culture I doubt their parents are going to learn.

yes.

see white folks don't get it - they just say … oh come on work out and you'll get laid. LOL.

indian guys have hardcore families who make them study and won't let them date as kids. as a child if my parents found out i was dating, i would have gotten my dyck chopped off. i never left the house as a kid.

so yes in some ways i'm WAAYYY behind other guys in the dating game cause i didn't have my first GF till i was 20 (which i had to hide from my parents cause they are ghetto old school )

i know some half asian people….they seem a lot better adjusted to western culture. i'm stuck between living in a western society, yet being viewed as a nerdy FOB.

that's pretty much how i ended up on SOS in a nutshell.

All I really want at this point is a girl I care about and who feels the same about me. Call me beta all you want, but at this point in my life, I don't want to "spin plates". I want to get married. I could have an arranged marriage if I want but I am not going to throw in the towel just yet.

 

[GotED?]

All I really want at this point is a girl I care about and who feels the same about me. Call me beta all you want, but at this point in my life, I don't want to "spin plates". I want to get married.

You need to read Pook's ANTI-DUMP's MACHINE in the DJ Bible.

Certain rules are set up because they are proven and protects you from getting hurt. I want the same thing as you do, but I had to WORK HARD and FIGURE IT OUT, even before I realized what I was doing was pretty much a replica of ANTI-DUMP's MACHINE.


You can complain and whine all day long on here as Drama King (there's plenty of you too that qualifies) feeling sorry for your own skinny arse.

However, it is the ones who gets over their own fear of THEIR OWN INADEQUACIES (whether real or self-perceived) that are NOT POSTING here and getting down with the b!tches.

If all 'skinny guys' are PHUCKED as you say, there would be 500,000 Skinny Guys on here complaining, wouldn't it??

Time to have a bit of faith in youself, dude. What do you got to lose. So far as I can tell, NOTHING.

Grow a pair of steel ones and get over your fear of rejection with women - this is where a true DJ's journey starts.


Be well.

Exodus

 

[Ambitious Player]

Though being Indian comes with many setbacks, I think the most overlooked one is that you have no real "community". If a Black guy is struggling, other Black men are going to pick him up and help him out. If an Asian is struggling, other Asians are going to pick him up and help him out. An Indian guy gets the opposite treatment from his people, he has no brotherhood to look to for help or leadership.

Indian guys never pick each other up, they kick each other down and try to drag other Indians down to their level. If an Indian guy is not having success, he will drag Indian men that are having success down to his level by any means possible even if it means working with some Skinheads to do it. It is a culture of jealousy towards each other, that is what made it so easy for the British to conquer the country.

They don't even have to know the Indian guy that well, just that he is Indian and if they aren't having success then no other Indian guy will. It is a culture of pure jealousy.

 

[skinnyguy]

Though being Indian comes with many setbacks, I think the most overlooked one is that you have no real "community". If a Black guy is struggling, other Black men are going to pick him up and help him out. If an Asian is struggling, other Asians are going to pick him up and help him out. An Indian guy gets the opposite treatment from his people, he has no brotherhood to look to for help or leadership.

Indian guys never pick each other up, they kick each other down and try to drag other Indians down to their level. If an Indian guy is not having success, he will drag Indian men that are having success down to his level by any means possible even if it means working with some Skinheads to do it. It is a culture of jealousy towards each other, that is what made it so easy for the British to conquer the country.

They don't even have to know the Indian guy that well, just that he is Indian and if they aren't having success then no other Indian guy will. It is a culture of pure jealousy.

Repped. Finally someone who understands what it is like. I don't blame the other guys on here for being ignorant though. If I were white I'd have no clue about what it's like to be in this culture. That being said I try not to comment about things I don't know anything about. Guys on SS used to be supportive I guess now it is a mockery fest

 

[apprenticedj]

I'm a mixed bag white American (mainly UK origins). Being white and tall with a full head of hair, I really don't have any problems with being discount based on my race alone. Most women of all races in general find white guys AT LEAST agreeable, but of course everyone has their preferences. I think my toughest targets have to be black women. They're usually not too into "white boys" but not always.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm a French and Italian mix so I'm white. But I'm a VERY light skinned white guy. I have no problem with that. I don't believe in tanning. I probably get the most attention from Latinas, plus some whites and a few Asians*.

*As a point of clarification since this is an international board, when Americans say Asian, we mean East Asian probably 95 percent of the time or by default. In other countries, the term is probably used more broadly and includes South Asians.

 

[j.619]

Before I say my piece, I found this gem on the BBC:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/6161691.stm


Anywho... My pops is of British Caucasian descent and my mom is from the Philippines, just for reference.

I think being White has a higher ceiling in the US than any other race.

^ I think this holds a lot of truth, even though it's taboo nowadays to say being one race is better than another.

I'm built a lot like my pops and have his colors, but my facial features definitely resemble one of Pacific Islander descent. In my short 24 years on this planet, I've noticed that Filipino/other islander women, black women, and Hispanic women tend to be fond of my physical features. I'm not very tall (5'8), but am very athletic and am asked if I'm half Samoan all the time. My skin color is a little fairer than most islanders, so there is still some ambiguity as for as my appearance.

My personality is very Americanized. I grew up immersed in my mom's culture and am very appreciative of it, but have tried to embrace being white since being an adult and on my own. Women respond better to it. White chicks seemed to like the cute Filipino guy stuff, but I have had better success overall with other ethnic women (as I said earlier, Hispanics, black, and other Asians/Islanders) being a white guy that just happens to also be half Filipino, if that makes sense. I tend to be more attracted to white chicks, so It's a mixed bag for me. I change it up as I go.

On the being Indian note- I have a few Indian friends that don't generally have problems with picking up women. They aren't nerds though. Most of them are gym goers, sosuave lurkers, alphas, etc. I don't think that race/ethnic background/nationality is THAT big a deal if your game is tight. It's 2014, guys. Girls kiss girls. Boys kiss boys. Mixed relationships are commonplace. Change your mindset and fvck yourself some hot, privileged white chicks with rich parents

 

[VikingKing]

I'm white on the outside, black on the inside.