"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what movie to see?
- Thread starter gdi
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Disregard this tool.adpreston1988 said:
Chicks love to be scared so do yourself and the chick a favor and watch Hostel together.
TheVirtualMind
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Zerotwoonenine
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If you like her, and if you want to make her sleep and go for gold, then go for the movie, otherwise just forget watching it at all and instead go to do something active, like cycling or hiking, havent you read the tips!!??
Zerotwoonenine
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SAW!! Freak the panties off her and then go for gold!!!
i mean seriously, dont you think that horror movies are such a obvious message?? think before you post man.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DJ_Trainee_10
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Bring a horror flick AND a chick flick and see what happens from there... Ask her to choose one but pull for the other film she doesn't pick. This shows you're in control. If you're totally past that then just forget the underlined part.
I think we have a winner! :yes: :rock:
TheVirtualMind
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Skilla_Staz
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MEN watch gore. MEN watch horror. MEN watch whatever the hell they feel like watching because the KNOW that the girl will enjoy it. I had a brain lapse earlier today and actually asked a similar question in one of my posts. Rent what you want. Besides. When she gets scared, shes basically in your lap.
check_mate_kid_uk
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Skilla_Staz
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
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check_mate_kid_uk
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And you wonder why girls dont give you the time of day!dreamx said:
girlsarecrazy
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Zerotwoonenine
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Girls wont like porn unless she is a SLU__T. Dont ever watch porn with a girl you want to get as you girlfriend.shydude said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.