"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What mistakes do you continualy make?

SamePendo

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What mistakes do you continue to commit over and over when it comes to women?

I could honestly say some weeks ago that I just made natural mistakes, non repetetive ones, and I learn and move on. I have realized I commonly make two mistakes.

Sometimes I make up, on my own, like 2 jokes minimum a week. No-brainer ones, to which men don't laugh to but women generaly do (Hmmm, SamePendo wonders why.. hmmmm! ;)). I suppose I'm a genuinely friendly and comical person. Which leads to both recurring mistakes.

1) When I meet chicks which I like, personality wise, I start treating them as friends, without even kissing them, which makes it ok, since your intent is clear.. it ofcourse, weakens whatever opportunity I have.
2) This is kind of a derivative of 1.. I tell too much jokes. Since I'm exited because I made a joke up, I want to tell it to everyone.

So, it's simple, all I have to do is let them earn my jokes. Or, tell jokes only after I atleast kissed them. What's your recurring mistake? What's your solution?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My biggest mistake was that I found this forum on the internet over a year ago but I didn't join up at that time, so now guys on here will call me a two month moron, yet I have been reading the articles on So Suave for quite some time, but guys are sure to still have a go at me next June when my first year as a poster on here is up. :D
 
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thats not a mistake samependo

i do the same as you , im always telling jokes and im very ****y and funny but im more ****y so a lot of girls get tired of me and say that i have a big ego, but i dont care about those *****es i keep being the same cuz i have a good time being myself and some girls like me some dont

and you know whats ironic??
the ugly ones are the ones that dont like me and the hot ones do

just be yourself and keep making your jokes you are a funny dude


hey homie just to tell you a quick joke...

when a girl is giving you a BJ just punch her face with your ****
 

Bvbidd

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That's not a joke lol no wonder the girls get "tired" of you.
 

Taviii

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I get attached, and of course girls start losing interest as soon as I show them that I care, so I end up like I was few days ago. Didn't happen in recent years but struck again stronger than ever.

The remedy is Anti-Dumps famous post called: Protect that heart!

First step to get over her: deleted her number and messenger address, I felt better immediately!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRMoon

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I freeze up a lot. Even if it's just for a second I freeze up all the time. Even when I'm running good game and exactly what I want to happen happens, I freeze up. Honestly it pisses me off more then anything else. Today for example I was running game on one of my co workers at the pool and I laid her out like I was playing chess. Then after one of the moves that pushes the envelope a bit I froze up...again!!! It was momentary but it was akward. As usual I landed on my feet a little bit later but I'm getting really tired of freezing on girls. Then having to do extra foot work to break the tension or make things right.

If I were to say I had an achilles heal, its freezing up while gaming.
 

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Twice in in the last week I've given out my number and didnt get the number of the hottie I was tuning.

I'll ask for it most of the time, no probs there... but I have to do it first... it just seems desperate if I ask for it after shes got mine.

Thats prolly about the only mistake I do over and over....... AND IN THE SPACE OF A GODDAM WEEK.

NEXT WEEK THO!!!....... betta watch out hotties :box:
 

The Comeback Kid

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For me, it's trying to make something out of nothing too often.

Basically, when the conversation reaches a lull (awkward silence is coming), I try to come up with something else to talk about, but it will appear that I'm babbling and talking too much - thus, the chick will lost interest a bit.
 

itishe

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I start to worry and think heavily about my game when I'm involved with a girl which tends to make me act unnatural.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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