"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What method do you use?

3countriesPlan

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What method are you using?

I've been using A for the last year or so (listen to mack lessons with Tariq Nasheed for a more concrete feel on what that is)

You can A) do the direct approach where you expect the girls to jump through the hoops you place in front of them and spit from the hip basically without worrying too much about the steps, basically taking the natural route (very effective with a certain group of women)

-or-

B) go through the steps much like what is preached over on other forums like AF where you build attraction, calibrate, seduce etc.. (it works too)

C) then there is the French style which seems to also be of use too where you just inundate her with compliments and romantic stuff. For example: "I've been missing you so much since our last date and I think you are truly special"
It sounds pretty lame but at the same time girls really bite on to this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Mike32ct

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"A" Style Game:

I'm sort of in the "A" camp. I use a natural style game. I wouldn't necessarily call my style it direct because sometimes I'm direct and other times not. I just use a simple situational opener I came up with on the spot (indirect) or introduce myself (more direct). Then talk, laugh, kino, and try to escalate. But it's quite natural and not following a PUA flow-chart lol.

"B" Style Game:

I don't like the textbook PUA-style game. I don't like opinion openers. I don't think that conducting a survey is a good way to establish yourself as a potential mate lol.

I don't like negging. If I have to put her down in order to get her, I'm really not interested. However, if she throws me a sh*t test, I will throw it back at her.

"C" Style Game:

I'm not too familiar with the "French" style you mentioned. I'd love to learn more about it. It might be fun to pick up women using what we perceive as the most lame, AFC method. My gut tells me this method has a lot of potential. (I mean that sincerely. I'm not being sarcastic.)
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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A Method.

It gets you the most co-operative females. Matter of fact you ONLY get co-operative females. Worst thing to do is waste your macking on a broad that isn't interested. It is a waste of time. I would feel like an idiot if I wasnt direct.

B You can spend that time studying attraction etc. on getting you some money.

C is for simpish dudes. That's not going to get you a girl in the long run.
 
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