"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What Men Know That Women Don't
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
just another point of view.
sky
Don Juan
Quote: "I get fan mail from female readers who are slogging through my book when suddenly, inside their heads, the light goes on. All of a sudden they get the WHOLE thing. They realize they were raised in a society that taught them to mistrust and demonize men. They are stuck in a rotten marriage. So they try, just for a few days, to defer to their husband, instead of constantly bickering with him. They discuss family decisions together, but he gets the final say. And HE thereby assumes full responsibility for his decision. If something goes wrong it IS his fault. She’s FREE! Which is just what she wants. The burden of worrying about everything is removed from her and suddenly, magically, her marriage becomes delightful. Her husband thrives in the glow of this newfound respect and he behaves more responsibly than she could ever have forced him to behave in 20 years of criticism and abuse. It’s a wonderful thing."
Good find bro.
Good find bro.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That TP is supposed to come OVER THE TOP and NOT behind the back...
TinyFzzyKiwi
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Just a quick comment, I'd like to hear what he has to say about the people's of Iraqs reaction to us going after Saddam, etc etc etc. The media paints a false picture that we were very wrong for going into Iraq, which I believe is untrue. There are in fact many pictures out there of happy Iraqi's with US soldiers, but the media doesn't show them, now does it?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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yes, it really does seem interesting. I agree with alot of it, and theres some that I'm not so sure about as well. I actually emailed him about the Iraq war and what his opinion was on it, and he gave me another interesting look at it.
I think he'd be okay with me posting what he said, so here it is:
"So far we have killed over 100,000 Iraqis to "liberate" them from Saddam. So
there are 100,000 people who already feel it isn't worth it. Daily reports
say the iraqis want us out of there.
But my issue is the US government and the lies it employed to take us into
war. We cannot go to war based on lies. That simply is not acceptable.
I barely survived the Vietnam Era and this is the same thing all over again.
I guess that's why I feel so passionately about it.
Thanks for gettinhg back to me about the interview.
Rich
I think he'd be okay with me posting what he said, so here it is:
"So far we have killed over 100,000 Iraqis to "liberate" them from Saddam. So
there are 100,000 people who already feel it isn't worth it. Daily reports
say the iraqis want us out of there.
But my issue is the US government and the lies it employed to take us into
war. We cannot go to war based on lies. That simply is not acceptable.
I barely survived the Vietnam Era and this is the same thing all over again.
I guess that's why I feel so passionately about it.
Thanks for gettinhg back to me about the interview.
Rich