Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what makes this so easy in person but so hard online

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DonJoseCantosie

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I think what Francisco is saying is to carry on the conversation w/o waiting for a reaction from the girl. Don't wait for a signal. Just keep on doing things as if u believe she won't reject it. She'll let u know if she's not down to taking things further. Escalation has been a problem of mine for a year so i can see what he's saying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Check out MNIN new thread about getting together with an old friend who's now single.
 
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