"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what makes this so easy in person but so hard online

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DonJoseCantosie

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I think what Francisco is saying is to carry on the conversation w/o waiting for a reaction from the girl. Don't wait for a signal. Just keep on doing things as if u believe she won't reject it. She'll let u know if she's not down to taking things further. Escalation has been a problem of mine for a year so i can see what he's saying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Check out MNIN new thread about getting together with an old friend who's now single.
 
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