"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what makes someone fall for their friend?

garruk

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im sure all of you guys have fallen for one of your friends back in the day.

what was it about her that made you fall for her?

i ask this because i was talking to a really good chick friend of mine (totally platonic, shes almost like a sister now) and she was saying how of all the boyfrineds she's ever had, the best one was one that she had been friends with first.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maxtro

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It's very common for males to fall for female friends. It's due to liking by proximity. The more time spent with her the more the interest grows.

What I find odd, is that girls don't work that way. The more time a guy spends with a girl, the more she begins to think of him like a brother.
 

backbreaker

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easily

not spinning enough plates.

when i had options i never bothered to look at women i was friends with. ironicallyt his made them like me more

if you focus on one woman, regardless of who is is, you will develop strong feelings for her.
 
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