I'm dating my girl now for the past 4 months and we're long distance (about 2 hrs away). We only started having sex about a month and a hapf ago. The first few times were not so great due to the allergic reactions to the condom and them being too tight on me. The last few in my mind were good, although probably not mind-blowing...at least not for me.
The thing is that I haven't *** with her yet. Partly was me holding back in the beginning and then it's become a psychological thing because she keeps bringing it up and now when we do it I keep thinking about it too and it prevents me from getting totally into it and gettting off.
I'm always able to bring her to orgasm just with my hands in the pre-game runnup. I've even been able to give her a few nights of a couple orgasms spaced not too far apart. This is all with my hands. She's also said many times that I have "magic hands" and I know that she's never ever orgasmed in the past just from hand work. SHe's not ready for me to go down on her yet so we're limited to the hand stuff and sex.
SHe only likes sex for a short period of time, but to do it more than a few times in a night. I can feel that she gets really into it when we do it, but the fact that I'm not coming, I think it's really making her feel like she's not satisfying me or turning me on enough. I'm not really sure what I should do.
What do you suggest? And how the heck do I "blow her mind" so that she's so into me and won't even think about another guy? Need some bigtime help. Thanks.
M.
The thing is that I haven't *** with her yet. Partly was me holding back in the beginning and then it's become a psychological thing because she keeps bringing it up and now when we do it I keep thinking about it too and it prevents me from getting totally into it and gettting off.
I'm always able to bring her to orgasm just with my hands in the pre-game runnup. I've even been able to give her a few nights of a couple orgasms spaced not too far apart. This is all with my hands. She's also said many times that I have "magic hands" and I know that she's never ever orgasmed in the past just from hand work. SHe's not ready for me to go down on her yet so we're limited to the hand stuff and sex.
SHe only likes sex for a short period of time, but to do it more than a few times in a night. I can feel that she gets really into it when we do it, but the fact that I'm not coming, I think it's really making her feel like she's not satisfying me or turning me on enough. I'm not really sure what I should do.
What do you suggest? And how the heck do I "blow her mind" so that she's so into me and won't even think about another guy? Need some bigtime help. Thanks.
M.