Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What makes a man a real man?

FortunateSon

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I was having this discussion with friends over beers and it became quite interesting as it goes.

To me the characteristics of a real man are as follows.

In no particular order -

A real man is a confident in all that he does without ever being ****y, arrogant or outlandish.

A real man treats people with respect, but also commands respect in return.

A real man never shy's away from a battle, an obstacle and no battle is too great for him to win.

A real man isn't afraid to fail, for he knows through failure and struggle comes success.

A real man is not afraid to graft and work for all that he holds dear.

A real man never cries over spilt milk, he simply cleans it up and moves on.

A real man isn't afraid to have morals and ethics and stands firmly behind them.

A real man always maintains his sense of humour.

A real man never shy's away from his responsiblities. He embraces these responsiblities, because he knows that rights come with responsiblities.

A real man is a family man, is a great friend and even better drinking partner.

A real man cares about his appearance without going over the top.

A real man always maintains tidy and well trimmed haircut.

A real man leads by example, where there is a job to be done, he does it. When someone needs to say something, he'll say it, when silence is needed, he creates it.

A real man lives life with no philosophies other than what life has dealt him.

A real man measures his success by what he does in life, not how many women he sleeps with or dates.

A real man accepts that there is no such thing as perfection and that such an ideal is a complete waste of his time, yet he still maintains that there is room for improvement.

A real man embraces his masculinity without needing to exercise aggression to other males unless warranted.

A real man is not afraid of criticism, can accept when he is wrong and isn't afraid to ask for a helping hand.

Alas a real man died many years ago, the death of the real man occured sometime after the nineteen forties.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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teacha

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did a woman write this?
 

wait_out

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If you think manliness has anything to do with haircuts, you sir are an idiot

PS. I'm pretty sure real men are too busy dealing with the REAL WORLD to eternally whinge on about if they qualify for some BS laundry list critera
 

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You guys talk gay when you're drunk. :down:

I agree with alot of that but so GAYYYYYY.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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teacha said:
did a woman write this?
Probably some high school teacher while shaming some guy for a supposed wrong behaviour.
 

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FortunateSon said:
I was having this discussion with friends over beers and it became quite interesting as it goes.

To me the characteristics of a real man are as follows.

In no particular order -

A real man is a confident in all that he does without ever being ****y, arrogant or outlandish.

A real man treats people with respect, but also commands respect in return.

A real man never shy's away from a battle, an obstacle and no battle is too great for him to win.

A real man isn't afraid to fail, for he knows through failure and struggle comes success.

A real man is not afraid to graft and work for all that he holds dear.

A real man never cries over spilt milk, he simply cleans it up and moves on.

A real man isn't afraid to have morals and ethics and stands firmly behind them.

A real man always maintains his sense of humour.

A real man never shy's away from his responsiblities. He embraces these responsiblities, because he knows that rights come with responsiblities.

A real man is a family man, is a great friend and even better drinking partner.

A real man cares about his appearance without going over the top.

A real man always maintains tidy and well trimmed haircut.

A real man leads by example, where there is a job to be done, he does it. When someone needs to say something, he'll say it, when silence is needed, he creates it.

A real man lives life with no philosophies other than what life has dealt him.

A real man measures his success by what he does in life, not how many women he sleeps with or dates.

A real man accepts that there is no such thing as perfection and that such an ideal is a complete waste of his time, yet he still maintains that there is room for improvement.

A real man embraces his masculinity without needing to exercise aggression to other males unless warranted.

A real man is not afraid of criticism, can accept when he is wrong and isn't afraid to ask for a helping hand.

Alas a real man died many years ago, the death of the real man occured sometime after the nineteen forties.
I have investigated this question very thoroughly since the answer to this question allows a guy to attract the most beautiful girls.
 
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