"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What makes a former NFL star rape a mentally retarded woman?

MatureDJ

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A jury in July found Stubblefield, 49, guilty of raping the woman with the threat of a gun. He was also convicted of forcible oral copulation and false imprisonment.
my opinion: You mean to say he couldn't afford to get a pro? :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Easiest question you've ever asked. Repeated hits to the head cause brain damage. Stubblefield is like brain damaged. OJ Simpson's brain damage likely contributed to his off the field criminal behavior in retirement.
 

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Seeking to have total dominance over someone who is barely capable. God knows.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Head Trauma is a very real issue that most do not take seriously... Most don't even know that US veterans that incur brain damage/trauma while in service, get ZERO support from the military, they are literally on their own.

Footballers, same deal, except even worse because it is miniscule damage over time that adds up, one day their fine, next day they start going and once they start going, it just gets worse and worse... They enter this grey area where they cannot be commited to a mental hospital because they are conscious enough to not volunteer their freedom away, then the emotions begin to take hold, they degrade worse and worse, soon they are off on some crazy adventure, start reliving old habits, doing and saying things like when they were a kid.

It is so sad and we have not really saw anything yet, there are many ticking time bombs that are going unaddressed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Reminds me of that guy that murdered a bunch of people, I think he was in the NFL. They also speculated that maybe he had brain damage.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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