What makes a city a terrible place for meeting women and dating?

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Toronto seems to get a lot of heat from the entire community and I have heard nothing but bad things about it. It is hard for me to imagine that in a city of over a million people a guy who has his **** together would have a tough time meeting women.

So I want to say, what makes a city a great place for meeting women and having an amazing sex life (San Diego for example) and what makes a city a terrible place (Toronto)?

 

[PowerAbuse]

Toronto seems to get a lot of heat from the entire community and I have heard nothing but bad things about it. It is hard for me to imagine that in a city of over a million people a guy who has his **** together would have a tough time meeting women.

So I want to say, what makes a city a great place for meeting women and having an amazing sex life (San Diego for example) and what makes a city a terrible place (Toronto)?

Personally, I'm surprised by the talk of Toronto being bad. There's a guy on YouTube called "Honest Signalz" that does very well and he's bald. This is his first video from Toronto: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPe-gmWJApQ

He has many more in other cities too.

I think overall though, I can't imagine an entire city being bad. I think diversity and culture are important, and that depends on your own race/ethnicity. Culture/diversity probably won't matter if you're white in a predominantly white area. Toronto is quite diverse, one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world. San Diego is predominantly white. I think you should look at WHO is saying Toronto is bad and San Diego is good. Is it someone white who hates Toronto?

What do they look like, how old are they, what is their approach like? I think the opinions here are hardly scientific and there's so many different variables to factor in. Sometimes I wish people who gave advice on this forum could post a picture of what they look like, etc. so we know who is actually giving the advice. A lot of people also regurgitate opinions of others without first-hand experience because they've "heard" that a city is bad or good.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

San Diego and Toronto are also two different kinds of cities.

San Diego is more of what I can an open type of city. People there want to have a good time, enjoy life, and just love being there. Cities like San Diego are more fun oriented in the sense that there are a lot of things for couples to do, amazing weather, and two college campuses with gorgeous girls. People are just trying to have a fun time while not caring much about what is going on around them. A guy (of any race) who is in shape and charismatic can get an attractive or above average looking girlfriend in San Diego.

Toronto is a completely different kind of city, it is more business oriented and class obsessed than San Diego and most North American cities. It is a lot more cliquish and clannish for some reason from what guys who have lived there tell me. I often hear of how most of the attractive women there are in social groups which are tough to get into and pretty much closed off from the public in the sense that an outsider or a guy who isn't a part of the scene will have a tough time getting them. Somewhat noticed this too and from what I hear about the city, due to the pickup culture there the women have some of the biggest b*tchshields of any north american city.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I know we can't avoid the talk about race even though it is taboo on this forum but I will share this very important experience I have had with race when it involves the city of Toronto compared with San Diego.

Toronto

When I went to Toronto I saw a lot of asian and indian women with white men but as for the other way around I can count on one hand the amount of times I saw asian and indian men with white women. Toronto seemed very segregated to me, maybe it has to do with the "salad bowl" mentality that they have compared to the US which is a melting pot. With that said though, it goes against why I saw so many white guys (young and old) with asian women. I also recall seeing a lot more black males than asian or indians with white females.

One guy I met and became friends with is an Asian American guy from Florida whose girlfriend (they're engaged now) is a white girl and I talked to the two about their stay in Toronto. They say they were shocked at the treatment they received. Now the two are a young interracial couple and the girl is quite attractive, they told me about being stared at by others on a train and even having one young Asian woman at a restaurant talk to the two about how rare a couple they are and how she is so "bold and brave" for dating an Asian guy. It isn't something they encounter in the US but in Toronto, these two were outliers and they said that the society of the city had no problems in letting them know that.

Advice: If you aren't a black or white male, stay far far away from Toronto. Being asian or indian is a death sentence there.

Compared to San Diego

I love visiting San Diego. Complete opposite of Toronto. You commonly saw people of all races hanging out and almost every kind of interracial couple under the sun, white and latino relationships were common and didn't involve the disparity you saw with white + asian relationships in Toronto. In my recent visit I did see a lot more asian guys with white girls too.

Two of my friends from college (one asian and one indian) are both living in San Diego and having the time of their lives. These guys are muscular, outgoing, charismatic, and fun guys to be around. Both of these guys are dating girls who are white blonde and attractive, the reason I mentioned that is because I know most asians join PUA forums and forums like this so they can do well with white girls.

Both of these guys had their **** together when it came to fitness and style but I doubt they would have had any success in Toronto, they would probably be crying on forums or watching porn all day if they were to be in Toronto due to the cliquishness and the racism on a social level that happens there.

Advice: A guy of any race with this **** together could do well in San Diego.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Liberal cities like San Francisco and Toronto are bad because the girls have that "I'm a independent liberal female entitlement".

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Liberal cities like San Francisco and Toronto are bad because the girls have that "I'm a independent liberal female entitlement".

Almost all big cities are technically liberal. Seattle is liberal and I have only heard good things about that city not to mention NYC and LA.

What makes Toronto and San Francisco suck is the elitist mentality there and social circles being set in stone so hot girls are hard to reach and even have a chance with.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Chicago use to be good, now its a mess

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Chicago use to be good, now its a mess

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